andymb79 Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 So I had very vivid dream about my ex girlfriend last night. We were hugging and kissing and all that stuff. She was even talking about leaving her husband for me. The thing is, we broke up ten years ago. We dated for three years during the end of high school, early college. The relationship was great. It ended after three years and I went through about a year of depression and heavy partying. She started dating a guy immediately and the are currently married. Any way, about three years ago she emailed me out of nowhere. She basically said she made a mistake and thought about me every day since we split. She even said she woke up the day after her wedding and the first thing she thought of was me. We exchanged emails for a while. She finally said she was coming to town for a month and her husband wasn't because he had to work. She asked to meet up for dinner and I agreed. We had a great talk. (her husband knew about all of this). During the month, we spoke on the phone alot and met up a few times. The day before she left we talked for hours and cried. She said she didn't know what she was going to do and that it may take years to figure out. We left on good terms. A bout a year later she called me twice and had the same things to say. It's been about two years since and I've been doing just fine until today. I've dreamt about her a lot in the past but it never affected me like this. I miss her so much today. Does this dream mean anything or am I just visiting old memories in my sleep. Help!
Tyler. Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 No it doesn't mean anything, it's just old memories resurfacing. Next time she calls or anything, don't be so friendly. She is married, she has a husband. And from the sounds of it, he's trusting her and she's telling you she's made a mistake ? Yeah, she really sounds like a catch ( IRONY ). So what if she's made a mistake. Everyone does. If she really has feelings for you, she has to sort that marriage out then you should see what happens. Dude, look what she's doing behind his back. Yeah she may have told him about you guys meeting up but all the other stuff, no. Just move on and don't think about her. If it was me i wouldn't get close to her, she is married and you're exes. That's disrespectful to the husband. Let it go.
Author andymb79 Posted September 8, 2012 Author Posted September 8, 2012 I know, your right. She said she has to work on her marraige and hope it works. I know her husband and know he loves her and is good to her. If I never hear from her again, I'll be fine. I'll know she is happy. I was just really bummed this morning cause of the dream I had. I'm over it now. Thanks for the reply.
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