MissLu324 Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 My ex and I were together for four and a half months, but he dumped me at the beginning of last week. He claims I was too shy and that he couldn't do what he does with a jealous girlfriend. He never seemed to have that problem earlier in the relationship. He was also very distant toward the end, hardly calling me and not seeing me for weeks. Whenever I told him this, he'd get pissed. I thought I was over analyzing since I tend to do that, until I went to a show of his after weeks of not seeing him, and he treated me as if I weren't really there. I got really angry at him, but he got upset at me for being angry and we argued about it the next day on Facebook. He didn't want to hear what I had to say, so he went off and changed himself to Single. We haven't spoken since. Although we've been doing NC, we still have each other on Facebook but we don't talk and he still appears in my news feed and he still has our old pictures up. He claims he's moved on though he seemed hurt the other day. We started school yesterday and although I only saw him once but he didn't see me, I still feel as if he's ignoring me still and we still hang around the same people. I didn't really talk to our friends much yesterday, but I know I will on Monday. A friend said that I should just speak to him, but I still feel as if he doesn't want to and has already moved on and is doing just fine without me, which kind of hurts because we went through a lot togther and he just threw it all away like it was nothing. He made a status once again that I feel I'm overanalyzing, but he swears hes having an awesome year so far and he's not letting any more drama getting in the way or dealing with anymore 'he said she said b.s.' (I had told our friends last week everything that happened) and I feel as if it were toward me. A friend said I should just talk to him, and I want to because I feel like there was so much unsaid and I just can't let it go like this, but with the way he's been acting, it feels like he wants nothing to do with me. Should I even bother?
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