lauraryry Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 i have been seing this guy for a month and recently we had a small tiff. but to be honest i feel like he is using it as his way out.. idk. we have a wonderful time together all around.. but the other night while he was at wk i got upset about my sewing machine eating a project i was wking on for hours.. i was txting him about my upsetness.. and i fell asleep and missed his 3 calls. well the next day i called him and he says.."i prefer not to have any drama in my life.." etc etc.. i explained to him it wasn't drama and it wasn't abt him.. then i txt him .. "i enjoy the time we spend together. i hope to hear from you".. that was almost 24 hrs ago and no reply or call. should i call or should i just let it go. i'm pretty disappointed and want to fix this because it was nothing.. any advice?
january2011 Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 He bails at the first sign of "trouble." You've already explained what happened and he ignored it. It's only been a month. But it seems that you're already out of the honeymoon period. I vote for NC.
not-a-drive-by Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 I think he owes you an apology. This is considered as "drama"? It just simply shows that he isn't interested in you and doesn't care enough. I wouldn't contact him. Let him think it through, and if he does not come back with an apology, I would let him go now. What will happen when things gets more serious later in the relationship and there is actually "drama"? You don't want someone who will disappear from the face of the earth after a few petty tries. You want someone who will support you through the toughest times and not just be there for the good.
Calico Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 Looking at the bright side, it's good that you've seen his true (inconsiderate) colors within one month. Imagine you had discovered what he's truly like only after a year or three!
Author lauraryry Posted September 10, 2012 Author Posted September 10, 2012 thank you guys. i haven't heard from him.. other than on friday he txt me and told me he would like to meet sunday.. and sunday he txt me and told me he would meet me today.. niceeee. i'm trying to be really positive and listen to the nc advice, but it's still hard. i am also just out of an 8 month relationship.. so it makes this a little tougher having to deal with bein "dumped" twice in two months. well hopefully the next guy doesn't act like he's so into me and do the same.. third times a charm, right? lol.
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