ConfusedGuy201 Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Ok it may be a bit bigger then a bit of pickle. Sorry I ramble on a bit. I just don't know what to do. Basically I want to break up with my girlfriend. I have wanted to for quite some time now. I am hoping to have broken up with her before I start my second year of university, which is in a couple of weeks. Earlier this week I tried to break up with her. I went round and explained that this relationship wasn't working and just wasn't for me. It was during this that she said she was had missed her period and may be pregnant. I know she doesn't want to have a child as we are both too young and not ready for this in both our lives. She wants to focus getting her job all together and i want to focus on my studies at uni. I really don't want to be with her and have wanted to be single for quite a while now. I was really hoping that I would be single in time for uni. However, I don't want to be 'that guy' who just leaves a pregnant girl to deal with it all herself. When I tried to break up with her I said I would support as much as I can, to which she responded with "How can you be supportive when you don't want to be with me?". I had no reply to that. We are still currently together She has taken two pregnancy tests that have come out positive but they were the cheapest tests you can get so we are going to go to the doctors for a proper test. At the moment we are still together. I don't know what to as I don't want to be with her but I can't and don't want to just leave her in that situation. I appreciate any feedback at all, Thank you.
lauraryry Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 well.. i am a female and i do know that she is prob pregnant seeing how the tests were positive.. for real. now you two need to have a convo on what is going to happen. 2 options..ya know.. now if y'all decide to bring new life into the world you have to decide what is best for y'alls relationship. either way you don't want to be "that guy".. so you can have a baby and not be together.. also, if she is crazyyy she can always hold that child above your head.. these are things to consider in the decisions.. i have been dumped and missed my period.. and i was terrified that i would be put in this position.. so be sure not to be negative towards her for this. it took the two of you to cause this.
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