blue_jay_bird Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 On the fourth month of NC. Sleeping 14 hour's a day, crying every day. It's worse rather then better. I thought more time would make it better, but it hasn't. What should i do?
Calico Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Set the alarm, write a schedule for your day and stick to it, watch comedies, make new friends, force yourself to do things. You won't just start moving on, you have to put a little effort into it and do things that you don't "feel" like doing initially. If it still isn't better in a month, perhaps seeing a professional for medication (to get you out of the dark hole) may not be a bad approach, either. (You don't want this to turn into a deeply rooted depression.) And since I have a whole bag full of those, here's a *kitty hug* for you, too. They are not edible! 3
gullibleme Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 It really does get better...but there are still down times...I go through them also. The only way I got out of the funk at those times was to really think of all the negative issues in the relationship and how we really were not right for each other in the long run. Don't think of just the good times...it only makes you sad. You can think it was all rosy and perfect but actually when you think of it deep down there are things you didn't like ...right? I feel very lonely alot of the times but just tell myself I can't wait to find that understanding man I look for in my life...it has all been a learning experience to me...my first real love and heartbreak. Sucks but remember how you were before her/him get YOU back!
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