ion Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 KaiaMahina what's your sign? You mentioned your ex was a Cancer. And yes self-fixing is quite a habit in a mate.
SMF Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Kaia - you are doing great.. Your humor and wit is hysterical. You seem to be moving along nicely. I have been broken up for 3 weeks today...!!! Everyone should look back and see if they have progressed at all? I am not sure if I have- but I like to think that I have. It always strikes me strange when a person in a relationship is sooo amazing to you. Treats you with the utmost respect then when they decide that they just don't want to be involved in a serious relationship for their own reasons - they treat the person with the utmost disrespect. My ex- has discouraged contact, said he is not ready to reconsider (albeit me not asking for reconsideration), has ignored my emails which were all lady like and nice- nothing rude just speaking my feelings and he is being very matter of fact. I asked him if he felt that he was making the right decision and he said that he likes to think the decisions he makes are good ones... OH PLEASE- why do I even ask that- its not like he is going to say "no i am making a bad decision". A dumper is not going to admit to the dumpee that they are in any type of pain or pining if they MADE THE DECISION TO GET OUT. RIGHT?
Author KaiaMahina Posted August 5, 2004 Author Posted August 5, 2004 Ion, I'm a Capricorn with Cancer rising and moon in Pisces. Caps and Cancers are "opposed" but can complement each other nicely (each has what the other lacks) and in kabbalistic astrology, they're considered ultimate mates. Which we could have been if he hadn't been Cancer with Idiocy rising and moon in Cowardice. Cancers are very family oriented...and his MOTHER and SIBLINGS are what screwed everything up. I love water signs because their emotional depths match mine (what with my watery rising and moon signs), but they also tend to be wishy-washy and fearful of rejection, which causes them to dump you before you can dump them (which they think is inevitable). Ugh. I have been dumped by water signs repeatedly. Always come on strong and then freak out and bail. I would love another Cancer, but a more evolved one who isn't tied to momma's apron strings and doesn't want to spend 24/7 with people who share his DNA! Please, Cancerians reading this, don't be insulted or jump on me! Some of the people I have loved the best have been Cancers (and I am Cancer rising), but they are MOODY. Also, stubborn and unforgiving. Which is why I know I'll never hear from the ex again because he will never admit that he was wrong, and he'll never forgive me for not falling to the floor and kissing his family's...feet. Ugh.
ion Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Funny, both my sister and my father who are Capricorns married Cancers. My ex is a Cancer as well. I'm an Aquarius. Who knows if this actually has anything to do with things, but it's interesting to reflect on.
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