nevadagirl Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Have any of you ever been seduced? We all know what the word means but have you ever really experienced it? I did, a week ago. Now my seducer is stuck in my head and I feel creepy and obsessive and smitten and just...strange. I have been posting on LS for almost a year about my ex. Dealing with all of that emotional trauma. As of last week I am over him. I do not give a goddamn about him anymore. I have no reason to lie. I looked at that dreaded facebook of his, the one I feared for a year, out of boredom and a slight curiosity and felt nothing at all. He's dead in my heart now. I went skydiving. My oh so sexy instructor flirted with me. It took me by surprise because he didn't start flirting until we were under canopy. I registered the flirting even though I was probably experiencing some kind of sensory overload. I flirted back. He took it to the next level. In the back room where they process the videos he kissed me. A lot. And said he wanted to **** me. And that he could "train" me. And I had never been so turned on in my life. I have sex. I enjoy sex! I'm a firm believer in good casual sex. But nothing like this, nothing like this...complete and utter surrender to someone I did not know. Of course it was about the adrenaline. Of course it was about the absolute loss of control by trusting this man to throw us out of an airplane and save my life. Of course. My fantasy was darkened when he had to take my sister up on her jump and a wandering crew member mentioned that my instructor's girlfriend was the one who makes the reservations there. It...registered. But not enough to make me not want him. He came back and we made an excuse to make out some more. More than that. He had me touch him. I wanted him. Wanted nothing more than to give myself to him. But I was speechless. Confused. Couldn't say anything. We were interrupted. No more excuses to be alone. I had to leave. He whispered that he had my number from the forms I filled out. He would text me later. He did not text me later. He will never text me. I don't want to know him. I want to **** him. It's been a week and I am so completely seduced but I feel like a silly girl, such a silly girl. I wanted to go back. I wanted to jump again. I wanted to learn to fly (I still want to do these things )but I wanted him to teach me. Now I have to go somewhere else. My pride is too big. 2
ThaWholigan Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Ahh the ability to seduce - something I spend a little time learning every now and then. That guy doesn't need to teach you - he needs to teach us! 1
Author nevadagirl Posted September 7, 2012 Author Posted September 7, 2012 Become a skydiving instructor. :love::love::love: 3
ThaWholigan Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Become a skydiving instructor. :love::love::love: I'll think about it . I actually need to get on a plane first, I haven't even done that yet .
runner Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Ahh the ability to seduce - something I spend a little time learning every now and then. That guy doesn't need to teach you - he needs to teach us! i'm not big on casual encounter seduction like the guy in the OP (well actually i was at one time, but not these days), but stories like that still put a naughty grin on my face but back to the Q, yes i love being seduced by women who know what they're doing. little black dress, prolonged gaze, yum ...leading me to my corollary point. this whole thing about men going after younger women, is IMO a bit over-rated; ie, half of them have no clue how to best seduce us older guys, unless said older guy is only interested in pump and dump, then more power to them shout out to my seasoned ladies !! 1
SandRat Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Anyone can seduce under prime circumstances like this. Adrenaline high, then make your move. A woman, every woman, will do the will of a man that just "saved her life". That's it. Nothing to see here folks. He figured it out and it's his MO. Move on girl! He got what he wanted, he doesn't want anything more.
Author nevadagirl Posted September 7, 2012 Author Posted September 7, 2012 Sandrat it's not like either of us got to have an orgrasm we kept getting interrupted! If he'd said anything other than "I'll text you later" I would have come back. He owns that company. There's no good reason not to make money and take advantage of your passengers! :love: PS. Nothing to see here? You have a better seduction story?
jobaba Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I've tried some pretty bold stuff like that a few times. Sufficient to say, if you are not a 'hot and sexy' guy the results will be comical at best and brutal and crushing at worst. 1
O'farrell Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Sandrat it's not like either of us got to have an orgrasm we kept getting interrupted! If he'd said anything other than "I'll text you later" I would have come back. He owns that company. There's no good reason not to make money and take advantage of your passengers! :love: PS. Nothing to see here? You have a better seduction story? Yes one time I saw this girl at a club and she looked away. When we met a the dance floor my first reaction was to make out with her. She backed away 5 seconds later. I saw her again like 10 minutes later and she danced on me for 45 minutes. Seriously. I never knew exactly what happened on this night, but I don't question it either. She was a half black chick with the best ass iv seen to this day.
Author nevadagirl Posted September 7, 2012 Author Posted September 7, 2012 Yes one time I saw this girl at a club and she looked away. When we met a the dance floor my first reaction was to make out with her. She backed away 5 seconds later. I saw her again like 10 minutes later and she danced on me for 45 minutes. Seriously. I never knew exactly what happened on this night' date=' but I don't question it either. She was a half black chick with the best ass iv seen to this day. [/quote'] ...No my seduction story is better.
O'farrell Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 ...No my seduction story is better. shut up whore
Author nevadagirl Posted September 7, 2012 Author Posted September 7, 2012 Whore? You sound like a virgin. Cool club story though, boy.
jobaba Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 (edited) Sounds kind of like the plot of a porn movie to me. I wish I was good looking enough to pull that off. Oh sh@t. I just read he had a GF who was in close proximity too. Wow. I don't wish I was that. Edited September 7, 2012 by jobaba
florence of suburbia Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I just read somewhere that the brain can't easily distinguish between fear adrenaline and love adrenaline, especially in retrospect. This is because the memory gets associated with the feeling of the rush, not to what caused the rush. So if you approach someone while they're in a fearful situation, they may later recall your advances as the cause of the intense feeling when in fact that was not the case. 1
johan Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I've seduced. It's a thrill. And there has been a little bit of seduction involved in most relationships I've had. But there really is nothing quite as satisfying as starting from zero, forcing a woman to notice you, catching her interest, and then taking it over the line. The best part is when you catch her watching you with that extra little light in her eye for the first time.
Anela Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I've never been seduced, and never seduced anyone, but there have been times when I've been tempted to try - when I felt like I would be successful. I usually feel like a dork. I'd probably trip on my clothing and end up in the emergency room. Not so seductive. 1
Necris Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 (edited) seduction is just one of the many wierd alien skills I don't have, don't really know what it really is (sounds like just the ability to somehow become really attractive, though the way people talk about it makes it sound more like magic), and have not even the slightest clue on how to learn (I honestly have no clue, might as well be magic). As for the OP I agree that does sound like the plot of some porno movie. Edited September 7, 2012 by Necris
Hawaii50 Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 (edited) Not sure if it's seduction.. But, when I was like 19 I went in to citibank for a personal loan. The loan-lady was this georgous 32 yr old Miss Hawaii contender. Polyneisian. We immediately had sparks; we both seemed instantly smitten. After I got the loan, I sent her flowers with the money and made sure she knew it. She responded, and ended up taking me out for drinks and railing me for the better part of a year. I never did her, she always did me. She'd leave gifts on my doorstep. I felt so used, I <3 her. For a decade they were MY demographic, and I went over well. After that I never messed around with a girl my age until recently, 30 tomorrow (*****.) Now i'm looking in the mature and experienced 25-30 range. Edited September 7, 2012 by Hawaii50
SandRat Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Sandrat it's not like either of us got to have an orgrasm we kept getting interrupted! If he'd said anything other than "I'll text you later" I would have come back. He owns that company. There's no good reason not to make money and take advantage of your passengers! :love: PS. Nothing to see here? You have a better seduction story? I do. Just last Sunday night I went to a Dave Matthews concert with two blondes. I grew up with them and they knew I was getting a divorce so they asked me to go with them. I did. It was fun. One gal said her car was out of gas when we got back, we went in the other gal's car, so I said I'd follow her to the gas station. I did. We were both heading the same direction so I followed her. We were out in the boonies, we live in a rural area, and all of a sudden she pulls over. I pull over too, it's after one in the AM, and me being somewhat of a gentleman. She gets out and says she wants to thank me for going with her, her not them, and kisses me real hard. I haven't seen this woman in like 15 years and when we last met we were both married. There we are, standing on the side of the highway, one AM in the morning, kissing. Then, out of the blue, she says she's hot and wants to touch me. It's been a Loooong time so I'm like "what"? Yeah, I'm that out of practice! Next thing you know, she's got my willy out of my pants. WOW! I'm thinking. Next thing you know, I'm getting head, on the side of the road, at one AM in the morning. I was stunned!!! I really like her.
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I have seduced someone once, starting from zero "The art of seduction" is a great book, I read it years later. As for seducing me, I am not sure if it's possible anymore. My guard is too high up, it would be very hard for anyone to sneak in unnoticed.
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I've seduced. It's a thrill. And there has been a little bit of seduction involved in most relationships I've had. But there really is nothing quite as satisfying as starting from zero, forcing a woman to notice you, catching her interest, and then taking it over the line. The best part is when you catch her watching you with that extra little light in her eye for the first time. I do have a feeling you would be good at it 1
Author nevadagirl Posted September 9, 2012 Author Posted September 9, 2012 I just read somewhere that the brain can't easily distinguish between fear adrenaline and love adrenaline, especially in retrospect. This is because the memory gets associated with the feeling of the rush, not to what caused the rush. So if you approach someone while they're in a fearful situation, they may later recall your advances as the cause of the intense feeling when in fact that was not the case. Yea. I keep thinking if that had not happened between the two of us I would still want to skydive again but the pull to him wouldn't be so strong, if there at all. I mean he was cute and everything but not until the adrenaline rush got mixed up with his advances did he become something out of this world. :love:
Titanwolf Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 Lol this thread is full of win. I've seduced someone before, but only to piss them off because they were sexually frustrated . Great story OP, 5 stars 1
Hawaii50 Posted September 9, 2012 Posted September 9, 2012 (edited) I have seduced someone once, starting from zero "The art of seduction" is a great book, I read it years later. As for seducing me, I am not sure if it's possible anymore. My guard is too high up, it would be very hard for anyone to sneak in unnoticed. you'd be perfect for seducing..You're primed, tired of keeping your guard up, and eyes wide shut- focusing on only your perception of seduction. Edited September 9, 2012 by Hawaii50 1
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