zx14 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Hello- This is probably a question for the ladies, but maybe not. I'm wondering what my spouse is actually doing and whats going on underneath things. I'll try to keep this is as brief as possible without leaving any important stuff out. We met 1 yr. ago and were married in Dec. 2011. We split up the end of May 2012. It was crazy, fun, and should of stayed GF and BF, but she pushed and pushed and I caved and I knew I caved. I still wanted it to work though and did love her. We have not spoken since the day after I left which is almost 4 mo. now. We had split up twice, once for 2 weeks and once for 2 months, before this time and she contacted me both times to rekindle...which I did. I do not know exactly where she is living now and need her address to get a divorce started. I know the town and thats all. The point is this...I have told her several times I need the address and she refuses to give it and is in fact not communicating at all. She was having her friend from out of state calling and texting me the first 2 mo. about a tax refund and she even asked me who would be taking care of the divorce...which I said I would be. The friend even called my work but I ignored her the last month she was trying to contact me. Then on a dating sight I found a profile my ex had put up where the very first paragraph was all about me and how abusive and obnoxious and called me gay etc...it didn't look ligit as far as looking for someone to me. It was up a couple weeks and taken down. I believe I have also recieved hang-up calls from her and so has my Mom. The town where they came from is right near where she is. When she moved out she stole 90% of my sentimental belongings also. 1 month ago I sent her a letter (forwarded from previous address) with her tax refund enclosed. I said I would miss her friendship etc. and also if she wanted to get this finalized she could send me her address...but nothing and I mean nothing. It was a lukewarm letter at best, but not mean and not demanding. So what is going on with her? does she want to get this divorce or not?? She has some sort of agenda...maybe just to be difficult. I would think she would want some signs of me being angry or something so she could feel like its working, but she doesn't know whats even going on with me? Keep in mind we have no children together, no properties and no accounts or credit cards together. Thanks...just trying to see if most opinions are basically the same.
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