Lbreno Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Been with my partner for 8 years, split up before as he was emailing and flirting with other women, Since getting back together things are great Today saw an email via Facebook on his fne, (maybe snooping slightly, first time I've done this) To his ex saying he was thinking about her No reply or anything else Do I confront him or ignore it? Help!
BetrayedH Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 I wouldn't confront. Wait til you have something worthwhile or just be done with him.
tpandrews Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 I'm currently in your guys position, but she hasn't taken me back yet. If you confront him about it, he'll freak and play the privacy card and say you shouldn't have been snooping. Have you ever met his ex? Maybe talk to her and ask her about it. If she gives him up then say that's how you found out. It's tricky because you know now and it's hard not to act on it. You need to find a way of knowing without snooping. Maybe when he has the laptop on facebook you ask to use it quickly, if he leaves his fb on 'accidentally' click on the message, act surprised and question him on it. I hate to pry but as I'm going through a similar thing, what is it that made you take him back in the first place? You don't have to answer if it's too much it would just help me is all.
Author Lbreno Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 Well it was a tough one, We split for a year and I did all the usual cleshay break up stuff you know holidays with the girls bla bla, I didn't speak to him once during our break up, He kept trying to contact me, almost daily and the more I ignored him and 'moved on' the more creative he got We meet around a year later at a mutual friends party and seeing him made me relise how much I missed him. I thought his quest to he me back ment he had realised what he lost, I was so happy to see him and I felt like the left arm I was pretending I didn't miss was there again!! I'm devistated he would go down the same road, the saying fool me once comes to mind lol I'm not sure how t is with your situation but if your a better person with someone rather than without them.......if you think they have changed and u can seriously.........fully....forgive! U won't regret giving it a go
Author Lbreno Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 Fry fish ure right! Lifes to short
tpandrews Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Well it was a tough one, We split for a year and I did all the usual cleshay break up stuff you know holidays with the girls bla bla, I didn't speak to him once during our break up, He kept trying to contact me, almost daily and the more I ignored him and 'moved on' the more creative he got We meet around a year later at a mutual friends party and seeing him made me relise how much I missed him. I thought his quest to he me back ment he had realised what he lost, I was so happy to see him and I felt like the left arm I was pretending I didn't miss was there again!! I'm devistated he would go down the same road, the saying fool me once comes to mind lol I'm not sure how t is with your situation but if your a better person with someone rather than without them.......if you think they have changed and u can seriously.........fully....forgive! U won't regret giving it a go Thank you for that, I'm sorry things turned out the way they did for you. Mines a long story that I wont bore you with now but I can't live without her, I would never jeopardise what we had/have ever again. I know it, she's the one. I just need her to take me back.
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