rjl3wy Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 So my ex girlfriend ended things with me over 2 months ago and it's been the worst summer of my life. Long story short I tried fighting for her, went overboard and did stupid stuff like show up at her work (she works alone) to talk, tried talking to her frieds for advice and i had a feeling she was seeing a friend so I went on her phone acc and confirmed that. I also got into a fight with the "friend" at the bar and broke his nose. Which I regret. Now I know what I did was stupid but im legit heartbroken. So I'm guessing she hates me. She won't talk to me anymore and it's killing me. We dated for 2 years and I'm her first serious bf and first guy she slept with. I talked to a acquaintance and idk if this is from his mouth or hers but he said she wants nothing to do with me and thinks I'm crazy stalkerish and ya ( I'm not I'm just so broken over this whole thing. So my question is, things aren't lookin good right now for me but what can I do to make it better. And what an I do or say to have any chance at gettin her back. I love this girl more than anything ad I think about her all the time
Mike_d Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 I remember you I'd say you're screwed mate. your behav is out of control, and if that is what she says then she'll need to miss you to want you back, but you won't go away I'd say you've been acting crazy and stalker-like too from your description. this is no way to attract anybody. think about it, if you had someone you were on the fence about and they acted like this, what would you think about them? Personally I'd have a big case of "run away!" going on in my world. google around for the characteristics in men that make them attractive, then change your game up because you need a big tune up. you'll have the best chance of getting her attention at that point, but right now this dog won't hunt. leave her alone and work out what you need to do with yourself
Author rjl3wy Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 Okay then on a side note, What can I do or say to make things better. To make her see I'm no crazy or stalkerish but I was just hurtin and broken and did stupid stuff
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