hardup Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 (edited) Today I helped my ex move out. Even though my heart doesn't want him to go, I sucked it up, threw my emotions aside, been extremely nice about it an helped him move everything. I didn't want this breakup, he did. I'm just wondering what will he think of me for doing this? Should I have been mean about it, since he crushed and broke my heart so bad ?! I really don't wan him to leave! Is this giving him the wrong message as if I'm ok with this? My emotions are all out of whack! Edited September 6, 2012 by hardup Added more
bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 wow you just went through one of the most painful experiences ever. i moved out after living together for 3.5 years and the tears i cried, were unlike any other time i have cried... so hard.. so hurtful.. it's been two months since i moved and the ex hasn't told me once to come back. in your case, it seems something really bad happened since he hurt you so many times. i would leave him alone for a while because it sounds like you both need space
Author hardup Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 He broke my heat by not giving us another chance. We've been together for over 7 years and have a son together. The breakup didn't happen for any definitive reason, we just hadn't been happy in awhile with different aspects in our lives. We get along great for the most part. But is my over kindness telling him I'm ok with everything, when I'm not? He seemed a lot more upset about moving then I did. Now that his things are gone, do you think there is never a chance for us again?
bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 He broke my heat by not giving us another chance. We've been together for over 7 years and have a son together. The breakup didn't happen for any definitive reason, we just hadn't been happy in awhile with different aspects in our lives. We get along great for the most part. But is my over kindness telling him I'm ok with everything, when I'm not? He seemed a lot more upset about moving then I did. Now that his things are gone, do you think there is never a chance for us again? oh boy do i know the feeling, he didn't fight for you, right? same thing with my ex.. 4 years, got along for the most part but different things in life got in between us. anything is possible. if you both really love each other, you can work it out.. but one thing i have learned is that sometimes the people we love, aren't necessarily the right ones for us maybe you just both just need space to think things through. 7 years is a longggggggggg time and having a child doesn't make things easier. i honestly would give space right now and keep contact limited since you have a child together.
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