bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Does anyone ever have dreams that give you messages, signs, or hints on what is going on in your current breakup? I had a dream where my ex told me to just wait for him. He wanted to live his life first but that he would come back within the same dream, he was also having sex with a girl and told me it was just to satisfy his "need" to have sex since he was not single... (during our break up, he told me he wanted to live his life, wasn't in love with me, and didn't see me in his future. he is also hanging out with new female co-workers.) It's interesting how your subconscious has a thing or two to say.
Reegs Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 not sure if you like john mayer...but go listen to "dreaming with a broken heart" dont look into your dreams. I have read everywhere that when you dream about the person...its a way of your sub-conscious to let the person go. I am sure your thoughts during the day are dominated by him...right now your not going to get solace falling asleep either. Like everything else...this will pass. I promise. Good luck my friend! Lyrics below: When you're dreaming with a broken heart The waking up is the hardest part You roll outta bed and down on your knees And for the moment you can hardly breathe Wondering was she really here? Is she standing in my room? No she's not, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... When you're dreaming with a broken heart The giving up is the hardest part She takes you in with your crying eyes Then all at once you have to say goodbye Wondering could you stay my love? Will you wake up by my side? No she can't, 'cause she's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... Oooooooooohhhhhhhhh Now do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand? Baby won't you get them if i did? No you won't, 'cause you're gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.... When you're dreaming with a broken heart The waking up is the hardest part
Reegs Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 I think the last 3 songs on the Continuum album really helped me out during my tough times....as I think they are stages of a breakup. If you listen to them...this is my opinion... 10. Dreaming with a Broken Heart- Thats when it first happens. breakup is very fresh. 11. In Repair- the person is moving on and getting over it. Not fully healed...but not fully broken either. They are getting there... 12. Im Gonna Find Another You- Person has moved on...and is ready to find someone new. I think I am in between songs 11 and 12! haha
Author bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 I think the last 3 songs on the Continuum album really helped me out during my tough times....as I think they are stages of a breakup. If you listen to them...this is my opinion... 10. Dreaming with a Broken Heart- Thats when it first happens. breakup is very fresh. 11. In Repair- the person is moving on and getting over it. Not fully healed...but not fully broken either. They are getting there... 12. Im Gonna Find Another You- Person has moved on...and is ready to find someone new. I think I am in between songs 11 and 12! haha your awesome for pointing that out !!! JM is wonderful. glad your past track #10!!! the suckiest point ever.
KansasChica Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Your dreams are probably just reflecting your hope that you will get back together. I definitely understand. I was there too. Now, 9 months later, I've given up hope. I still dream about him, but he's always dating someone else in my dreams. :/ Hopefully, I'll soon be dreaming about someone new for me!
Author bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 Your dreams are probably just reflecting your hope that you will get back together. I definitely understand. I was there too. Now, 9 months later, I've given up hope. I still dream about him, but he's always dating someone else in my dreams. :/ Hopefully, I'll soon be dreaming about someone new for me! yikes you feel my pain then!!! i feel like it sets me back when i wake up i hope you find someone new who can take your dreams away from your ex <3
Mint Sauce Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 a few days ago, 2 months after she left me for my friend, I dreamt I beat her up...I was totally shocked, I've never had such an aggressive dream before. I guess I'm at the anger stage
Author bluefairy812 Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 oh dear! : X i'm sure you woke up and were like WTF. but it's understandable you would have a dream like that after everything you feel inside.
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