Dblock10 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 anyone feel like when they broke up they were too "nice". my ex came back and i told her how **** she was towards me when it ended, she apologised. but she also told me how it had been hard for her to.. she told me she too still had feelings, but then she moved abroad and when i mentioned "us" she seemed to get uptight and respond with something like, its been over a year now t** so that made me think wow ok. she then went on to say how it was great to see me but it didnt change anything for her. it didnt mean or make her want to be back together. again ouch. especially after telling me the feelings were still there. just seems quite unfair to me. after this conversation via fb i went into nc. she then 5 weeks later asked how i was. i guess because i changed my pro pic to the event i went to, so she asked how it was and what had i been doing. i replied a week or so later just with a kind reply and also asked her similar question. again got a reply with her asking where it was i got a new job. since that reply i have not replied, as i have been trying to let go and protect my self from this circle.. its been about 3 weeks nc and i do struggle from time to time. not really sure if im doing the right thing either.
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