uuuugh Posted July 21, 2004 Posted July 21, 2004 This isnt workin with the boyfriend... Been together, on and off, for like 6 months now. On and off... On and off... On and off... We break up then end up back together. It's always me too, i'm always the one breakin it off. I think I'm afraid of being alone. Should we end it? Keep goin? What do we do?
Vie Posted July 21, 2004 Posted July 21, 2004 Hmmm.. I think we both know that your relationship isn't healthy anymore. I think you should consider of letting him go permanently, because you said yourself that you were always the one who broke it off. Was it because of small arguments? or was it because you were just being moody? and when you got back together again, was it because you actually cared and loved him or like you said, simply because "I'm afraid of being alone". I think the best way is to just get it over with. Firstly, it's not fair for your bf (or is it ex now?), imagine if you were in his shoe. That'll suck big time! I mean, seriously, do you think that's how relationship should be? I hope when you make decision, you also consider other party's feelings. I think if you end this relationship, you will be better (no burden and stuff). As for your reason of afraid being alone, honey, we all are and that's perfectly normal.. but that doesn't solve the problem. You don't need boyfriends to kill the lonesome.. that's why you have friends, family and positive activities to occupy your mind. Remember that you're not alone and that's what this forum is for; to be here for you, to listen and to help. Take care and hope that helps. *~Vie~*
popvix Posted July 21, 2004 Posted July 21, 2004 I think youve answered your own question there ... Just remember its not WRONG to want to be with someone - its a natural human urge to find a mate. Having said that, if your only using this person when you need him, and dont really care for things..or how they will pan out over time... the most respectful thing to do would be to break it off.
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