Country_Girl Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 So I like my guy friend, I'm 30, he's 37. Known eachother 1.5 years. We hang out once every few weeks- dinner, movies, etc. Back in January I texted him letting him know I like him, and not to respond. He had a girlfriend at the time, so I didn't expect anything to come of it, I just needed to get it out. He replied I could tell him anything and let's just see what the future brings. Sometime in March him and his gf broke up. I ended up staying the night when a group of us went to the casino and we cuddled all night- he initiated it. A few weeks later he invited me over to rent a movie and stay the night. Same deal, we spooned all night- but he didn't make a move. He began texting me almost daily for 2 weeks- and I was responsive. Then he kinda fell off the grid for a while and I figured he got back together with his gf, and I was right. That didn't last long, maybe a month or 2. In July he asked if I wanted to rent a movie. It was after midnight when the movie was over and I asked if I could crash there but he got weird and hesitated- so I said no worries. Thought it was weird since I crashed there 3 times before. And I don't think he was dating anyone. Plus we were curled up together during the movie, and I know he wouldn't have done that if he was with someone. I'm having dinner with him tomorrow. Should I just tell him AGAIN that I like him? I'm so confused. He's not the shy type- so if he liked me, wouldn't have something happened by now? He used to text me sweet dreams and stuff, but he stopped that back when he fell off the grid in May- so part of me thinks he put a boundary up on this "friendship" so I shouldn't reveal feelings again. Because maybe he was rebounding at the time and he was just lonely. To say it again, or not to say it again...that is the question.
MuscleCarFan Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 I would give it a try anyway. He did reciprocrate before so see if you can make him come around.
Axee Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 He is just playing you around, he knows that u have feelings for him and using you as an option.. I am sorry but this is the truth.. in case u DO tell him and he DOES reciprocate that too wont last long and ultimately it will be back to square one... Tell him but at your own risk... Source : Been there done that
Axee Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 Any update Country Girl? What did you do.. What happened?
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