rach24680 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 ok, so had a great first date, he even extended the date. we kissed goodbye and he txt the same night saying how he had a good night and we should do something again. i txt back and said yea thatd be great and he said hed think of something and let me know, 5 days later and ive heard nothing, should i txt him or wait for him to come to me? the first date was initiated by me btw so i dont want to push him into another date if he doesnt want one? what do you guys think?
runner Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 sorry but, if the guy wanted to see you again he would have worked something out far quicker than that. find someone else.
KathyM Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 He might still call you. Wait for the call. Don't call him.
Author rach24680 Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 sorry but, if the guy wanted to see you again he would have worked something out far quicker than that. find someone else. even though he txt straight after tge date saying he wanted another? i hate the dating game haha
truth_seeker Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 1) He's trying to play it cool and not seem too eager. 2) He's got other options on the table and is exploring them while he has you on the back burner.
runner Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 even though he txt straight after tge date saying he wanted another? i hate the dating game haha yes. he's most likely hooking up with someone else. you're OP references 5 days, but in his mind, he has no idea it's been 5 days since he saw you. okay maybe that was harsh, but you get the picture. i sympathise with the whole 'dating sucks' thing, but you have to expect the bumps and hang on tight if you choose to ride that horse in the first place.
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