Looking4that1 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 I was with this girl for 4-6 months who made me feel very happy and alive. we weren't official so I asked her if she wanted to become a couple. However, this set in motion the abandonment and she lost interest in me. She gave out her excuses (to which I thought were pretty weak) and took steps to avoid calling/seeing me even for a coffee. Now, 9 months later, I still see her occasionally online. She responds to any texts/online messages, but I can see she isn't all that interested in engaging a convo. I feel like there's a bf or someone else involved and she only responds to be polite. I know she's moved on, but I can't stop thinking of her. Do you think she'll come back or am I being too hopeful?
The_Face Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 From what you said, I think you're being too hopeful, yes. She doesn't sound remotely interested in you. And even if she did come around someday, I wouldn't necessarily think that means you two should try to start a relationship. You were never even official, so she may not have liked you the way you liked her. I know it's easier said than done, but I would try and move on. And by move on, I mean just forget about her. It doesn't mean you have to dislike her or resent her or anything like that, but close the book on the relaitonship idea. You could find someone better, I'm sure. Good luck to ya! You sound like you're handling yourself fairly well.
soccerrprp Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 Sounds like she wanted a FWB, not a bf. Move on.
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