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yongyong Established Member

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so I met this chick online. I asked her to meet at coffee shop. But it was too late so we ended up meeting at my place.

 

I went for the kiss within 30 minutes.

 

In fact, I didn't even take a shower because I thought I shouldn't even attempt to make out. (I lost many girls just after kissing and make out with them on first date even though I didn't go near the crotch)

 

She seemed enjoying kissing. I put my hand near her boobs to see how she reacts (usually girls move my hand at least several times before allowing)

She didn't react at all. I also put my hand inside her pants little to see if she would do something. She was just laying there without any resistance.

From kissing to getting her naked and inserting my penis, it went down smoothly.

 

I banged her for 5 hours (including water breaks, food break, laying down together and talking)

 

I enjoyed banging her and she rode it well.

 

So she slept with me on first time we met. she was on birth control. she was in army (not sure how army chicks behave)

 

I think I should just keep her as FB and have fun?

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ls32ssibm Established Member

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Army chicks are notorious sluts. I'm sure there are some good ones but I haven't met any.

 

 

I hope you wrapped it, buddy. It doesn't sound like it judging from your post.

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Minka333 Established Member

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Yeah just have fun with her...and get yourself checked!

phineas Established Member

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Army chicks are notorious sluts. I'm sure there are some good ones but I haven't met any.

 

 

I hope you wrapped it, buddy. It doesn't sound like it judging from your post.

 

I hate hearing blanket statements like this but I gotta agree. I've dated & met a few women who were in the army at the time & they all had sex with me on the first date or went home with me that night.

 

When their stationed overseas all they do is get drunk & have sex with random soldiers.

It's like the army culture.

 

I've had a few friends in the army & the one stationed in korea verified this. He put it to me very simply:

 

"It's a bunch of ripped people with nothing to do but drink so yeah, lots of sex is going to happen"

 

Wrap the sheet up with army chicks & make the dudes wrap it also.

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You slept with her on the first date. Are you a slut?

 

It sounds like two people enjoyed casual sex. By all means, continue to enjoy if mutually desired.

 

You may or may not decide you'd like more out of the relationship once you get to actually know each other.

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mesmerized Established Member

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Thats exactly why I dont respect men. They are hypocrites who love playing games. Men like you deserve to be lied to and cheated on.

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Imported Established Member

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Military chicks...AKA "morale gear".

serial muse Established Member

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You slept with her on the first date. Are you a slut?

 

My thought exactly.

 

Do you need to characterize her somehow, or can you let go of that and just enjoy it in the moment and see what happens?

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sweetkiwi Established Member

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oh man the title of this made me laugh pretty hard. Slut is a title designed by society to make women feel bad about being sexual.

 

Would you rather have paid for it? Are you the bigger slut since you were the one initiating everything? Was she turned on by you pure and simple and just had sex?

 

Have fun and stop judging people for the same **** you're doing.

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AsItIs Established Member

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Herpes on wheels..

 

You obviously didn't even wear a condom since you mentioned her being on both control.

 

 

Goodluck with that.

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ImperfectionisBeauty Established Member

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Don't judge her as a slut... You don't know that maybe she was horny

sweetkiwi Established Member

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Thats exactly why I dont respect men. They are hypocrites who love playing games. Men like you deserve to be lied to and cheated on.

 

this is exactly the same thing you're complaining about. I don't like this type of man either. But. Putting a blanket statement over all men is wrong and really not helping your case. Saying he deserves to be lied to and cheated on because he's ignorant is just proving his wrong assumption.

 

You can't change everyone. Just yourself.

SJC2008 Established Member

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Why would you even want to have sex for 5 hours?

 

Women who have sex fast are looked down upon a lot and there's a double standard when it comes to this but I don't think she's a slut. Not unless she blew the whole football team!

 

I say op is full if bologona!

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Imajerk17 Established Member

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Herpes on wheels..

 

You obviously didn't even wear a condom since you mentioned her being on both control.

 

 

Goodluck with that.

 

I was about to say something similar. Sounds that you didn't wear a condom and that was dumb on your part.

 

Are you SURE she is on birth control too, by the way?

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yongyong Established Member

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Are you saying Men and Women are equal when it comes to sex? :lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Yes I think she is a slut.

I don't mind talking about how I banged her, how much I regret not cumming on her face to my guy friends.

 

can she do the same thing to her friends? how her friends would think of her if they find out? would they give her high five and tell her 'go girl'? :lmao:

Don't women try to act like they are 'clean girl' in front of their friends?

 

Everyone knows women likes talking sxit about each other behind.

I bet women here will act totally different in reality

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You slept with her on the first date. Are you a slut?

 

It sounds like two people enjoyed casual sex. By all means, continue to enjoy if mutually desired.

 

You may or may not decide you'd like more out of the relationship once you get to actually know each other.

GirlontheLam Established Member

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The OP sounds like a true gentleman.

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Andy_K Established Member

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Are you saying Men and Women are equal when it comes to sex? :lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Yes I think she is a slut.

 

As crass as the OP is, there's an underlying point here:

 

Women generally are the ones who choose when sex happens. Men tend to take it as soon as they can get it. Therefore, how soon a particular woman normally has sex is decided more or less entirely by her. How soon a particular man has sex is determined more or less entirely by the women he dates.

 

What this means is that a man who sleeps with one girl on the first date can't often be assumed to be doing the same thing all the time, unless he's exceptionally good at picking out that type of girl. Most of the time he'll be waiting a few dates. On the other hand a woman who sleeps with one guy on the first date might well do the same thing with many other guys if she chooses. She, generally speaking, is more likely to be repeating the behaviour often than him.

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yongyong Established Member

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Thanks for being a representative. You clearly said it right.:laugh:

 

As crass as the OP is, there's an underlying point here:

 

Women generally are the ones who choose when sex happens. Men tend to take it as soon as they can get it. Therefore, how soon a particular woman normally has sex is decided more or less entirely by her. How soon a particular man has sex is determined more or less entirely by the women he dates.

 

What this means is that a man who sleeps with one girl on the first date can't often be assumed to be doing the same thing all the time, unless he's exceptionally good at picking out that type of girl. Most of the time he'll be waiting a few dates. On the other hand a woman who sleeps with one guy on the first date might well do the same thing with many other guys if she chooses. She, generally speaking, is more likely to be repeating the behaviour often than him.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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I hope you liked it, because I predict that within one year, your dick will have shriveled up to the size of a needle, and rendered unusable for the rest of your life.

 

Guys with the attitude that you have shouldn't be enjoying the gift of sexual pleasure with women. That should be reserved for men who know how to give as well as receive, and who don't share intimate acts and private body parts with people they perceive as scum.

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mesmerized Established Member

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Are you saying Men and Women are equal when it comes to sex? :lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Yes I think she is a slut.

I don't mind talking about how I banged her, how much I regret not cumming on her face to my guy friends.

 

can she do the same thing to her friends? how her friends would think of her if they find out? would they give her high five and tell her 'go girl'? :lmao:

Don't women try to act like they are 'clean girl' in front of their friends?

 

Everyone knows women likes talking sxit about each other behind.

I bet women here will act totally different in reality

 

Oh women absolutely talk about it and even brag. They dont brag when they sleep with a small dicked asian like yourself tho, just tell each other to avoid the kind.

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Drseussgrrl Established Member

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Oh god grow up.

 

You were two consenting adults who banged it out. No need to brag to your friends like a high school kid and no need to label her anything. This is not what MEN do. It was sex. No big deal. From the sounds of it you don't get it too often, and when you do, you create a thread about it asking if your partner is a slut.

 

From now on make sure you use condoms - you don't know if this girl was on BC any more than you know if she's got HIV.

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yongyong Established Member

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Did your mom tell you about asian guys' sizes? :lmao:

 

(I had to respond in a childish way since you started first)

 

 

Oh women absolutely talk about it and even brag. They dont brag when they sleep with a small dicked asian like yourself tho, just tell each other to avoid the kind.
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I hope you liked it, because I predict that within one year, your dick will have shriveled up to the size of a needle, and rendered unusable for the rest of your life.

 

Guys with the attitude that you have shouldn't be enjoying the gift of sexual pleasure with women. That should be reserved for men who know how to give as well as receive, and who don't share intimate acts and private body parts with people they perceive as scum.

 

Good thing about military sluts is they get medical attention easily and are required to have annual physicals if not more.

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mesmerized Established Member

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Did your mom tell you about asian guys' sizes? :lmao:

 

(I had to respond in a childish way since you started first)

 

Weak one. She didnt need to, its common knowledge. So you didnt use condom causwe you were afraid it falls off and you embarrass yourself?

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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just find a black guy (like this chick I banged) or

 

Oh! So the slut you banged for five hours turned out to be a black guy! Now I'm enjoying this story a lot more!

 

Are you 100% into being a chocolate chimney sweep from now on?

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