rcgj Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 has anyone had NC and now married? i just joined this site and in almost all the post the answer is NC..move on.... but has someone had NC and now happier than ever with that person? my ex and i were great. i would supposrt her..she would support me(she was even paying for my gas to get to school, paid for food, and she only worked 1 day, so basically everything she worked for went towards me)...she told me she doesnt love me or see me in the future but likes me a lot...she also said i stress her out, that she already is stressed because of school, work, and amily problems.. it was too much? idk if i should have hopes or not...its been 3 days, i have NC
BDranger Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Life is crazy. NC is a good way for a lot of people but like any good addiction, it isn't a blanket answer to all relationship problems. She sounds busy, give her time and space to miss you and decide if she wants to come back. Right now, she gave you the opportunity to do YOU and not worry about her. Go out drinking, go to the gym, go skydiving, whatever crazy stuff you want to do. The worst thing you can do, and I guarantee it, would be to call her, email, facebook, text, her asking her what shes doing, how she's been, etc. She made her decision, just respect it now. And 3 days ain't anything buddy, some people wait years. You'll be fine, just get out there and the more fun you have the faster you will meet or re-meet someone great. 1
january2011 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 I think that there's only hope if she misses you more than she misses the stress of being with you and the money that she's now saving because she doesn't have to pay for your gas and food. Given that she told you that she doesn't love you and that she doesn't see you in her future, I'd imagine that the likelihood of getting back together plus getting married is slim at best. I'd strongly advise you not to focus on getting back with her. Instead, focus on figuring out how you are going to pay for your gas and food. That's your priority right now.
Drseussgrrl Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Dude. Be a man and get a job and take care of your own stuff. This is really unattractive to women.
Author rcgj Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 lol at the above comment. i broke NC at first i was like **** now i feel great...i like giving her advice..she got mad when i said was moving on..and i finally got something out of her.. she tells me she dont see me in her future because i dont have enough patience...i gave her many reason why i do...she agreed but she said she still needs time...(school is really stressing her) ...either way if she nevr becomes my gf..i can see her as a good friend shes been really good to me..she has made me realize a lot and prevented me from doing bad or opening my eyes
leoc1973 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 get a part time job and she will probably come back.
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