livelife Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 *It's long I apologize, but I appreciate those who help! So me and my ex have been through hell and back. I broke up with him as a mistake, instantly tried to take it back, and have been trying since. I haven't hooked up or went on any dates with any guys because I want him and only him and I want to show him that it was a mistake. The break up was at the start of June. During this time he didnt have a job, was struggling to pay rent and such, so we never went out. This really has buckled down on me and upset me because yeah I have given him my all this summer and I'm always trying to hang out with him. Well rumors are rumors and who knows if they are true or not, but I kept hearing that he was taking girls out on dates. I went to him about it, and he always said he wasn't dating anyone. The most recent girl I heard about was the last straw. I told him I had heard he took this girl out on a date and were talking a lot ( mind you he had told me he wants to work on us before I found this out) so thats why I got upset. He said that he wasn't taking her out on dates and he ahd just met her and they had a class. I asked him, well if I messaged her would she agree? He admitted to going to lunch with her but says he didn't pay for her ( don't believe.) He also said that he was trying to hook her up with his roommate (again don't believe) but she had just gone through a break up so she wasn't looking for that. She is best friends with his fraternity little sister ( I don't know if you guys know what that is. but basically like this girl is like his sister to him ) He said all I do is bitch at him for everything when I need to stop listening to what i'm hearing. and I told him if he wants to date other people to let me know. he said If I honestly wanted that do you think I would put up with all of this bullshi*? And I said okay what do you want. He said this to work out. I asked him how and he asid it will take trust and work from both sides. Fast forward to a couple days later. it's labor day and he is having people over at his house. I asked him what he was up to and he said drinking with his little. I didn't respond and he texts again two hours later and says I guess you didn't like that answer. I said no I dont mind haha I just didn't want to bother you. He said I was going to get you to come over and drink with us. (at this point it was late in the night) so I said oh I didn't know. Oh Well. The next day I get online and see this girl that rumored he took on a date with added a timeline picture on facebook of them two. I sent it to him and said, so tell me you aren't dating her. He said I was overreacting and I flipped my **** to be honest and said no you don't treat me right, we don't do anything and you're taking other girls out and doing nothing with me, i'm done and I can't do that bull**** anymore. I'm done. This blowup between both of us was from 3 pm yesterday to about 11 pm last night. I told him guys knew about him and if he wanted me that girls should know about me. He started ignoring my texts and I had asked him if he could do what I needed him to do for us to work, (treating me right, no other girls, etc.) And he ignored it. I said alright well damn I guess I get the point. Again no response so I started getting upset. I told him I needed an answer so I could move on, that ignoring me just wasn't doing it. And then he said you will have your answer by 12. Then I hear a ring on my doorbell, we had friends over and someone goes, idk who it is but they're holding flowers. Instantly my stomach dropped. He had a pledge (a new member of the fraternity, they make them do stuff in order to be a brother) bring flowers to my door, with a note. I said thanks and shut the door. The note said basically that he does want to try but its hard when hes getting yelled at all the time, he doesnt know who he is and hes been trying to find himself in all the wrong ways, and that if we eally want it to work I need to trust what he tells me and understand and help him and he said he was sorry he hasn't been able to treat me how I deserve but this was a small step to show that thats changing. He also mentioned how not a day goes by that he doesn't think about me. I told him it was sweet and I slept on it. Then this morning I told him that if we were to talk about it that it was going to be in person because I didn't know how to say it otherwise. Thoughts?!?
Author livelife Posted September 7, 2012 Author Posted September 7, 2012 Anyone? The next day at my car he left a note that said Have a GREAT day. Text me if you're free tonight. He came over last night, and took me out to lunch today and paid for me. I texted him after thanking him for all that hes done and that I appreciate bc he didnt have to. And no response?
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