LostGirl11 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Since the break up I feel as though I've got to be doing something all of the time! And if I'm not I feel like I'm letting myself down! I know that we're meant to keep ourselves busy but I think that I may be forcing it and keeping busy for the wrong reasons. It's petty draining actually! As soon as I wake up it's like my brain has some kind of competition going on!! I have crazy thoughts like 'I hope I'm out and about before him' Or if I'm not doing very much like watching tv or just relaxing I'll think 'I need to do something, I bet he isn't sitting around, I bet he's enjoying whatever it is he's doing' Blah blah blah... I shouldn't even care about what he's doing! I really don't know why I'm assuming that he's having a whale of a time! Am I the only crazy that does this?
mistermr Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 No you're not. It's just a matter of time when these thoughts will fade though. You'll start doing stuff you want to do again because YOU want to do them lol. I've often sat around at night on the internet or watching TV, whilst imagining my ex is out in the clubs and getting laid. I recently spoke to her, she has been doing no such thing. She has been out ONCE in two months. I mean, that annoyed me slightly, she left me for a new/better party life and doesn't fulfil it. LOL You've got to remember whenever you see someones Facebook for example (most of the time) they only put up the best photos. The ones of them partying and having a good time. But realistically you know they've spent the rest of the day sat around picking their nose or something. But yes, there is a slight competition element from breaking up and trying to live better lives. But who honestly acts like James Bond everyday? He's probably doing just what you're doing. Killing time. You are not alone in that. 1
LoveHurts88 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 My ex after we broke up has been drinking partying going out everynight and going home super late. I guess its normal because they dont want to think about who they broke up with and when theyre out theyre having fun
mistermr Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Trying to numb himself? What a great life :/ You've just gotta do whatever makes you happy. If you want to go out drinking/partying til late every night then do it, but I suspect you don't 2
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