Art_Critic Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Negative results, checked twice. Well... I guess you proved that she can't trust you now.. Talk about a total invasion of personal privacy.. you have resorted to swabbing her personal underwear.. Maybe it's time you re-evaluate things... I get that you are trying to catch her cheating.. but honestly you have come up with nothing after swabbing her dirty underwear, I'm guessing that you just learned that vaginal discharge is also white ? is this really worth it ? This is of course just my opinion.. so feel to discard it but it seems to me that you have crossed a pretty big boundary and maybe should consider whether you want to be in this marriage or not and if you do then get both of you in marriage counseling.. 2
BetrayedH Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Good to hear but still doesnt mean anything. A VAR is the #1 way to go IMHO. Anybody ever use a blacklight? Im wondering is semen supposed to show up glowing with one or what? Read somewhere that a special dye must be used on the stain for the blacklight trick to work.
Author Reg Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 ACWe did marriage counseling twice in the past year.
Art_Critic Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 ACWe did marriage counseling twice in the past year. Bummer... I remember realizing in my first marriage that it was over... It obviously is different for each marriage, reaching that conclusion of no return wasn't easy for me.. I had to exhaust every option and in the end I was staying in the marriage because of my step daughter. I look back today and don't regret staying much much longer than I should've but I also look back today and shiver with what I put up with. Good Luck Reg..I mean that.. I know my words have been harsh on your thread but all meant with the idea of helping you.
NotCamelot Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Maybe I missed something, but is there a reason that you suspect something (other than you two not having sex for weeks)?
todreaminblue Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Have any of you done this? Where can these products be acquired? Do they sale something that works at a drug store? ok my sister and her ex had problems conceiving ......they went to a specialist i think..... how would you market semen testing? i am not even going there.....havent seen any ads on tv lately for semen testing products.....please let me know if you find out that there is because i cant picture the advertisement for that.......actually dont worry i dont think i want to have an image.....good luck with that...best wishes....deb
BetrayedH Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Maybe I missed something, but is there a reason that you suspect something (other than you two not having sex for weeks)? He has another thread going. Wife texting boss, both talking about her "twins," meaning her boobs. Lot of other very typical red flags though.
LifesontheUp Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Not sure how much help a positive result would have been. After all, your wife is still disrespecting you by not taking your concerns seriously, and will not stop her "unprofessional" conduct with her boss.
drifter777 Posted September 6, 2012 Posted September 6, 2012 Negative results, checked twice. Did you check them after she came home late after "working"?
Author Reg Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 I tested within 72 hours, per the instructions. I agree, the results don’t change everything else experienced and observed over the past 15 months.
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