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I need some support to deal with this.


Phanpooh

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At first, this is my story.

I and my ex were in LDR for almost 2y and at the end, i let her go for a boy she was in love. 10m break up, Nc for 9m after i know they r in a relationship.

Update, she moved to her country, and i dun know about what happend in that R. Im single and okay now, sometime i think about her but i can ingore it.

Problem, when she was with me, she own my money. Not much to be cared and i dun need that money either. But when she was in other country, she borrowed my best friend there too much money. I just told with him today and he said, he cant remember how much and he believe that, i cant pay back for him that much.

She is poor and the reason my friend lended his money, cuz of me, cuz of my promise that she is always okay when she is in that country. It mean, he just help her for me. So i want to pay back for him and im rich now.

However, some of my friend told me to break NC to ask her about that money and pay it for him. Some told me keep NC and forget it, but he is my best friend and i have money now. We r man, we do what we promised even that is value or not. I really need your help to deal with it. Whenever my emotions stick with this girl, my brain just stop working and i cant decide the right thing to do. And i'm still in healing process so then i dun want to take a risk step, which will put me back to hopital. Yeah, this break up was really suck, cost me a half year to be okay just like now.

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