penelope04 Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 been out on 4 dates with this guy. uncertain whether i should continue dating others or if he would be interested in something more exclusive. any signs i should look for without having to ask him?
Curt Posted July 20, 2004 Moderators Posted July 20, 2004 Why not ask him directly? Afterall, if he cares for you, then there should be no reason why asking him would be a problem. Why try to divine what he wants by somehow "avoiding" asking so? Just wondering. Curt
Author penelope04 Posted July 20, 2004 Author Posted July 20, 2004 To directly ask him would be out of charactor for me. Some men might take it as I am rushing into things and it could turn him away. On the other hand, it may be the answer I am seeking. I was just wondering if there were any signs I could look for to invite me to ask him. How soon is too soon?
Curt Posted July 20, 2004 Moderators Posted July 20, 2004 Even if it is out of character, Penelope: Do you perceive that he might take it in the wrong way, even if you prefaced the idea with "I don't want to come off like the pushy girlfriend but..." and go on from there? How do you guys interact? Do you enjoy each other's company or does he appear rather stand-offish or? Curt
Author penelope04 Posted July 20, 2004 Author Posted July 20, 2004 Originally posted by Curt Why not ask him directly? Afterall, if he cares for you, then there should be no reason why asking him would be a problem. Why try to divine what he wants by somehow "avoiding" asking so? Just wondering. Curt see penelope04 thread for your response
kalie Posted July 21, 2004 Posted July 21, 2004 Penelope, Why not just take a few more weeks and just have fun dating. I woud suggest dating others at this point anyway. Ive dated a lot over the past few years. The one thing I learned was to just relax and have some fun. Dont think of every date as a possible boyfriend. If its meant to be it will be. I didnt sleep with my guy right away. I gave it two months, give or take a day. During that time I dated up a storm. My guy approached me about being exclusive. He knew I was dating and asked me to stop to give our relationship , as new as it was, a chance. So I did. Kalie
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