Chacha8 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 I haven't posted alot here, simply because I am a bit shy, but I do read pretty much every thread and I must say that alot of the advice given here has helped me through some of my darkest days over the last several months. So with that being said, thank you:) I'm posting today because I found out that my ex husband has already married the woman he left me for. Quick recap: Husband left in March, said he wanted to be friends, started seeing someone within a few days (he says) and was living with her within a week. He swore they did not meet until after he moved out, but clearly that is not the case. I went NC after a few months of stupidly trying to get him back, and although it was ridiculously difficult, it was the absolute BEST decision I made during that time. Our divorce was final July 12. In Texas (as in most states) you must wait 30 days before remarrying. He and his fiance got married on day 31. Why is this so hard for me to accept? I have come so far in my healing journey over the last several months, but damn...when I heard that he had married her so quickly, it really hurt. Anyone else experienced a quick remarriage like this? It's frustrating because I felt like I got over the hump, only to be knocked back down again. Crazy thing is that the day he returned from his honeymoon, he sent me a single text telling me he had gotten married, asked how I was doing and told me he missed me. Really? And of course, I did NOT respond. I was too disgusted to even entertain the idea of replying.
GLDheart Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Your ex went a bit cookoo there. I especially love that bit where he needs to text you for your approval. Don't you know? You should be happy for him!
Author Chacha8 Posted September 5, 2012 Author Posted September 5, 2012 Your ex went a bit cookoo there. I especially love that bit where he needs to text you for your approval. Don't you know? You should be happy for him! lol yes, it was pretty unbelievable to hear from him in that way. I mean, it almost seemed cruel....here he was, *finally* reaching out to me, asking me how I was and telling me he missed me; something I had been longing to hear since the day he left us in March. As reality set in, I realized he really doesn't care how I'm doing and surely doesn't miss me; I think it's his guilt kicking in. I wouldn't even know what to say even if I did respond, and frankly, I don't feel he deserves it. He's put me and my son through hell, and I never want to go back there again.
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