Seaning Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 (edited) Okay so I'll try to sum this up. I have been talking to this girl for a few months, a few dates here and there we've messed around and still text a bit. When we hang out she's super affectionate and says she really likes me but doesn't want to. When we don't hang out she is just a cool person to text and talk to but nothing really like when we hang out. She said she doesn't want a relationship or anything serious so I get that but why act like a GF in person but then not make an effort to make plans with me. When we hang out its amazing then she will text me the next day and say how happy she was to see me but then it fades. I seem to be the one to have to text first or make plans to see her. She has been pushing me away after things started to get serious so I stepped back and only text her every few days, now I'm not sure what to do... either she is afraid of something serious happening or just playing me. I feel like I should just stop talking to her since she never makes an effort but there is too much there when we hang out to just drop it. Any suggestions? Edited September 4, 2012 by Seaning
jenwon Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Just have fun and go with the flow, but dont invest anything into her. Dont take her out to expsnsive places or do any relationship stuff. Go see other people etc.
Author Seaning Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 Thanks for the input, just need to let it work itself out I suppose
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