Dubphonik Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 (edited) Greetings all, I've been broken up with my (alcoholic, bulimic, lying, cheating, tramp) ex of one year for 13 months and have been dating a wonderful girl for 11 months. My personal phone was getting blown up while I was with my new girlfriend. I was getting dirty texts and non stop calls. I answered or replied to a handful with we are done or leave me alone I have somebody else. Nothing promising to my ex for her to think there is a chance. During my new relationship my phone got blown up by 80 non-stop calls at a time randomly. My new g/f saw the number of missed calls. She got really upset and distant. So I changed my number and things got better. Well somehow my ex found the number to my nextel workphone. I've been keeping it off after work and leaving at work so my current girlfriend wont get upset or notice. It's been 8 months and my work phone gets blown up at work. I've answered a few times like this is my work phone, stop! I've called sprint but its a company phone and can't do anything unless it's my boss. My boss is the type of guy that is too serious (a s s h o l e) about work for me to explain things like this. I've heard him say before no use of the workphone for personal use or else. I just don't know what to do. I've thought about throwing my phone in a lake but then I'd be responsible for a new one and more than likely get the same number. I've contacted the police. They have called her to stop. But the second time I've called them, they said take it with my provider. I've tried profanity, name calling, lying, I've made arrangements to meet at far places, and not shown up. I just don't know. This is effecting my work. Any suggestions or experiences. Thank you. Edited September 4, 2012 by Dubphonik
january2011 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 File a police report and get a restraining order? Speak to a lawyer? It's been going on for 13 months. I think you need to take more drastic action. You need to speak to your boss. What your ex is doing is affecting his business. If your boss is unsympathetic then you might even want to consider finding another job. After all, it sounds like she knows where you work. It might only be a matter of time before she escalates beyond phone calls and text messages. Don't respond to your ex again, except via legal channels. I'd also suggest that you let all your family and friends know what's going on so that they do not inadvertently divulge any contact details.
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