ditzchic Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Hey guys, I wrote in a few weeks ago about how my ex who I havent talked to in about a year contacted me again and we started having friendly chit chat again and I wasn't sure what was happening... It's been like a month now and I hear from him multiple times per week. Just to talk. He hasn't officially asked me out again but he's made reference to it and I quickly changed the subject because I'm not sure if I'm ready for that yet. Now he is doing this thing where he is talking about other girls he finds attractive. It really doesn't bother me that much because I know I have no right to an opinion on it. I just let him talk. I figure he is just trying to make me jealous. Especially because whenever I mention another guy, he completely ignores it and changes the subject so it's obvious he isn't comfortable just talking about that kind of stuff with me. He's also been bringing up our previous relationship more and more. Like things we did and things he said on our first date. Movies we've watched together etc etc.... He's even started calling me pet names again. He calls me "kid" and something else that he called me on our first date that I don't really want to mention here. lol. For now, I'm perfectly fine being just friends with him because I have no idea if I want this to go anywhere or where I want it to go. But I'm getting a little paranoid that he is just using me for an ego boost. I never initiate contact with him. He always starts conversation. But I do still have feelings for him and I'm working VERY hard at taking it slow and containing myself. At the same time, I have an ex that still has feelings for me that tries to be my friend only and I can't help but feel a little pity for him. I don't want to be that girl to this ex... Help!!!
lil hoodlum Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 I think you should ask him what his intentions are with all of the phone calls etc. I hope he isn't just toying with your emotions. I think you have a right to know though to protect yourself. Good Luck!
kaylan Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 ooops...meant to post in your newer thread.
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