DBella Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 It's been over 5 months since H was caught cheating. He moved out of the house and I have tried NC but it is so hard because we have 2 kids and one of them is not even 2 years old yet. He asked for forgiveness and even tried a reconciliation but it's impossible because he lies so much and he hasn't tried to stop any contact with the OW. I realized I haven't healed completely. We were together for 10 years. I just want to move on and not think about him anymore but it is very difficult when he calls to ask about our children, even worst when I have to see him. Anybody care to share any experiences with coping and children in between?
GLDheart Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 I'm in your boat. My goal is to be "work like professional" towards my ex. Since we share a daughter, hate won't help my child any... Since she lied to me and cheated, reconciliation or friendship are not options... That just leaves my cold indifference for her. I'll save my emotions for my daughter whom I love with all of my heart.
jgregory4614 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Same problem here too...my wife and have 3 kids and its impossible to have NC. I think the best way to deal with that is to have no emotional contact, just stick with the buisness end with dealing with kids. Thats how me and my try to handle this situation. We both know we will always have constant contact with eachother. I did let my emotions get the best of me the other day and texted her but it will be the last time. The both of you have to have an understanding about why the both of you are seperated and respect eachothers space. If you two can do that their shouldnt be any problems.
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