Hddforyou Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 So about 2 months ago my ex broke up with me after 6 years. After find out through friends she left me for a guy that had money and etc. I know she is sleeping withhim and all that jazz. So I stopped all contact and have not talked with her in about 1 month. So I found out she called my mother "they were close when we were together" and in the Convo she mentioned something about me to my mother. Something along the lines if I had found some els blah blah. Well my mother only said "I dnt think he should be with anyone right now" and apparently she flipped out saying "HE FOUND SOMONE ALReady" even tho my mother didnt even say that. Why the hell does she care if I already found someone if she left me and started to sleep with another guy less then 2 weeks after we broke up? I am just wondering because I found it oddthat she would say such A thing after all she left me. End statement - I wouldn't t want her back anyways and all my fauls hope is gone about her coming back and I am doing my own thing now, but just strange and I just wanted to get an outside explanation.
Coyoteloco Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 because she is abitch.. dude my ex gf broke up with me 1 month ago after 6 years together, if i found out she is sleeping with some1 i would flip out :S how did u handle that? also i would never ever get bback with her if she did that to me. how did u found out? im getting paranoid lol i think she is not that kind of girl but well if urs did that. . . how old is she? and is it for sure that she is with some1else, or maybe just rumors?
Author Hddforyou Posted September 3, 2012 Author Posted September 3, 2012 because she is abitch.. dude my ex gf broke up with me 1 month ago after 6 years together, if i found out she is sleeping with some1 i would flip out :S how did u handle that? also i would never ever get bback with her if she did that to me. how did u found out? im getting paranoid lol i think she is not that kind of girl but well if urs did that. . . how old is she? and is it for sure that she is with some1else, or maybe just rumors? Well she is 20 I am 24 as for her age. While we were in contact all she kept telling me is that she needed "time" and that she was going out to Cali to see one of our friends "the guy she is sleeping with" so the whole time she was saying this she was also telling me to move on and ****. So during the first month I sat up drinking lol and talking with family because I just felt like ****. So many things running through my head at that time I really wanted to die , but friends and family got me threw it. Then 3 weeks ago a friend of all of us "his best friend" was like " you are my frie d and I would rather you know the truth, and this might hurt.." he said What was enough to let me understand that they been ****in. There was a lot more to it but that is a nut shell of what went on. When I found out this news I was upset but anger and time got me through not drinking myself to death. I now know which is better then thinking what could be. As one of my heros once said.. She made her bed and now has to lay in it. As for you bro, all the people around me kept saying time will heal.. It really does. Just keep going forward and that is what I have been doing. Also going out and talk with other chicks too. If you are old enough
Coyoteloco Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 **** thats hard man :/ , i would just recomend u to forget about that girl forever, dont give a **** if she cares or she doesnt care cause shes not worth it, she just wants u to be after her. Yes everyone tells me the same, that time will heal, already been 1 month since the break up, still have feelings for her, i wish i could say that i dont want to be with her anymore, but my brain is a mother****er ;( its pretty possible that my girl kissed another guy, which is already a deal closer for me as i wont take her back if she kissed another man, and even if she didnt kiss this other man i dont know if i would take her back anyways, she hasnt been good to me. I dont see her coming back soon, but well. . . im 21 and she is 20, we are eachother firsts so i think she couldnt be ****ing another man in 1 month :S i agree that going out and talking to other chicks helps u, but i still miss her. Keep ur head up man, u been through another breakup before of this one? or is ur first one?
Author Hddforyou Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 Yeah bro **** is messed up. I felt the same way like u. My heart says love her and my mind says **** her. I was her first and no I never had a break up like this. Mabe some middle school breakups but I was young and did t care. She just needs to grow up. Very immature and insecure. I do kinda feel bad because I know she will regret this down the road.
Coyoteloco Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 yes i feel the exact same thing, im pretty sure she will regret this in the future, she is also immature and insecure, and one of the main reasons she left me was because of her friends telling her its weird to be with a boyfriend for so long :/ . I guess when she looks back and remembers what we had and why she gave it away she will defenetly regret it. Also in my break up there was another man involved, but from what she tells me and from what mutual friends tell me and also the fact that the other man is uglier poorer and all together less than me, and believing she is just not that stupid i hope she didnt **** him or even kissed him, she is going to therapy so i guess that might help her understand. So in 6 years this is ur first break up with this girl? did u ever expected her to do something like this? or it came out of the blue and one day she was this stranger to u?
Author Hddforyou Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 yes i feel the exact same thing, im pretty sure she will regret this in the future, she is also immature and insecure, and one of the main reasons she left me was because of her friends telling her its weird to be with a boyfriend for so long :/ . I guess when she looks back and remembers what we had and why she gave it away she will defenetly regret it. Also in my break up there was another man involved, but from what she tells me and from what mutual friends tell me and also the fact that the other man is uglier poorer and all together less than me, and believing she is just not that stupid i hope she didnt **** him or even kissed him, she is going to therapy so i guess that might help her understand. So in 6 years this is ur first break up with this girl? did u ever expected her to do something like this? or it came out of the blue and one day she was this stranger to u? Sorry, Very busy latly " Trying to keep my mind distracted" I won't lie man, I have read tons of ****. If a chick is going to break up with you they will lie. My girl even said this new guy is just FRIENDS and BS. I only say this to you because I wouldn't want you to keep hope up and be disappointing. From what I can recall, When I was 19-20 I went through a phase where I didn't give a ****. I told her to move on I strung her alone and then she found someone els, BUT we were in a Long distance Relationship. When she told me she found someone els I rushed to her house 7 hours away to make up for my dickheadish actions. Pretty much made up for it and we continued to date and then a few months after I moved up to where she lived and started living with her. We also had our own little fights here and there, but that is normal. As for expecting this action from her?!?!? I knew in my heart that this day would come. I knew **** would get astray and start going crazy like this, but I didnt think it would go to this extream. About 2 or so years ago I even told my aunt "One day she will go through this phase and I will lose her" BUT I thought I could avoid this, but clearly I couldnt lol. A few weeks before this breakup I started "Feeling with my 6th sense" If you will that she was driffting away. I tried to talk to her, but she insisted that things were ok. I wasnt the best guy at this time due to work/school/life and what was going on with our life at the time. The grass isnt greener on the other side. The guy she is with.. His parents have money, YES they do but not so much him. HE is one ugly guy bro... Seriously I showed my friends/family his pic and they all are like WTF.. This guy.. Just so ****ing ugly. I wont say I am the best looking guy ever, but I will say I consider myself a sexy mother ****er lol. After her contacting my mother... I found out she is working at a ****ier place then when she was here. And that she is actually looking BAD, and not so happy.. "She uploaded pics to Facebook and my mother saw them" I have not contacted her and I removed all updates from her on FB because it just helps. She continued to say she wanted to be friends and **** but its been a month and some change and she hasnt tried to contact me. I guess she is trying to get info through my mother since I am staying with her now while I go to school. I just found it strange that she would flip out on my mother about me being with another girl really. NOT that I want to be with her or anything but just why would it care if I was.. She is off acrossed the whole US with another guy and ****ing him.. Does it ****ing matter if I am with someone els? I see a case of.. I want my cake and eat it too syndrome. BUT it is still silly for her to think I'm going to wait around for her to "FIND" her self and after all this **** she has put me though BAHAHHA ..
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