LoveHurts88 Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 So for those of you who don't know my story. There's a thread on it as well. Long story short ex of 2 years broke up with me because we got into an argument and she said she lost feelings for etc... She messages me here and there but 2 nights ago she messages me and stupid me i replied she asks how I'm doing and what not. Then I told her I was going to go grocery shopping and she asks if she can come. I said Yes... However during the time we were doing grocery shopping I told her that maybe we shouldn't talk like what I have told her before. She agreed, I walked her to her car and left. Msg'd her when I got home to say it wasn't me being mean or anything but for me to move on. She told me she doesn't think she's over me yet but she also gave other excuses like she doesn't want to drag it and have to end it later. I went out yesterday to a club with my friends got pretty messed. When I got home in the morning I really missed her, i really wanted to hold her and what not. So i messaged her and told her that I missed her and she said that it'll be like that until you occupy yourself... I then told her that I loved her and that now I will leave her alone and won't bother her anymore. I won't message her or do anything for her anymore. I am missing her like crazy. I really love this girl. I also asked her if she was seeing someone else she said no. Well who knows. Any advice?
salmagundi Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 You can get over her now when pain=x or you can drag things out with contact like this and end up getting over later when pain=x(y) where y equals the amount of additional time you spend contacting her. I've done it. I'm doing it now...
Author LoveHurts88 Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 You can get over her now when pain=x or you can drag things out with contact like this and end up getting over later when pain=x(y) where y equals the amount of additional time you spend contacting her. I've done it. I'm doing it now... Thanks I just sorta gave closure thru text. Wished her luck and what not. And said I wouldn't bother her or MSG her anymore. Pretty sad to do that.. But if she doesn't want me then I gotta do it
salmagundi Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Man, you did exactly what I should have done 2 months ago. Good job...just try to stick with it now...
Regrets58 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Been there too,lots of very nice contact for several months. Lovely when you are with them,but torture when you are not. She ended it in January,but couldn't start letting her go until June.All because of continued contact and false hope etc.
Author LoveHurts88 Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 You know what helped me actually. When i said those nice things to her on whatsapp. She reads them and ignores them and them asks me to help her sell smth i got her and we can no longer take care of it. Then i remembered the things she did that got me upset but she doesnt give 2 f..ks. Im done i just noticed all the **** shes done to me all the flaws. I dont think i care about this anymore. Maybe itll hit me again later but as of now i do miss her but she aint worth me the trouble nor the begging cause that aint my job anymore.
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