VanGogh Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 I bumped into my ex Girlfriend today. I have been with this girl 4 years living together 2 years. one day she left me out of blue. I didn’t go after her but I was looking for an explanation then realized she was so defensive and didn’t want to speak and just saying that I have to think about myself sorry. Then a week later she was flirting with a new guy. Ones I realized there is someone else in the picture I cut the all contact and sad her my best wishes. After 6 months she was pregnant from this guy. She is still not married but had a baby recently.on her e-mails she says the same thing and telling me that she was in love with me although she never said “I love you ” while we were together. she says still looking our pictures and she is sorry for the way she choice the end. she also says last year she was dreaming about me quite often. Kind of blaming the guy that she rushed all because of him which was stupid she says. wanted to phone me sometime but scared to call me. She also says the reason for break up wasn’t him.! She sent me couple of e-mails and texts like “hope you don t hate me etc. ” ” I hope you will forgive me one-day that we can speak again ” every 2-3 months after break up. I have responded the one of her e-mail by saying it is ok …but don’t want to be in touch with you.. and it is not fair to your relationship that you writing me ( she was pregnant that time ) and ignored the other e-mails I am ok with everything now and not holding grudge but I don’t want to involve with her after this stage..So I walked away without seeking any answer. Later on she tried to speak couple of time but I realized I don’t want to.. and each time I ignore her .. I am receiving an e-mail saying “I have done the right thing for both of us” etc… and trying to validate her actions… and she is opening up more and more every e-mail. I don’t want to be part of her grieving process… what is the mature-way to deal with this… after that long time I guess i don’t need to hear what happened that time. I was her first boyfriend by the way. She always said she hates the fact that I had girlfriend before her. And now she has moved in to my neighbourhood that I can see her around almost every week.. Today I was going to bank and she was coming from other site she smiled to me and stop to speak I smiled her said hi and didn’t stop.. Have you been in a similar situation? what are your thoughts? How would you react .? sorry for the novel.. Just needed to take out..
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