rcgj Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 I really dont know where to post this. I been dating this girl for about a year and 7 months..I loved it. sure we have our disagreements. so i really love this girl. i pick her up from work, school. tell her to do her school work. do everything she tells me to do. before her my life wasnt so great i didnt have a father. i would be in the streets drinking and doing drugs..after i met her i have stayed out of trouble and found a reasonm to be happy. this girl is young and it probably the reason my relationship has ended. I know that there has been times where i made mistakes. I used to check her phone.. that stopped.. i used to get mad when she wanted to hang out with other people..i have worked on that..i get dissapointed when we dont have sex after we been touching and everything..everything is ready and in the mood and she says no..She wanted me to talk to her mom, who at first would diss me.. now i talk to her..same for her brothers...all what i have mentioned has caused break ups. yes i been controlling I really like being with her. she is fun and beautiful. I quit my job and she has literally piad for food and my gas money for 3 weeks and she only works one day.. so i know she cares about me. when she gets mad at me she stays mad at me for days. i get mad for about an hour and thats it. she gets mad easily just like i do. she simply is the type of person that doesnt care.. she used to tell me stuff like eh, i dont care..stuff like that when we argued..there has been times where we fight i cry(yes i cry) and she hugs me but then there is times where she doesnt care.. i have tried talking to her and everything even before our break up yesterday. she has lived a hard life..no father. she was living with an abusive aunt and she finally moved with her brother, which she hates. so i can undestarnd she has problem yesterday..i picked her up from soccer game..she was mad and screaming because of her team mates.. i was cool with it. till i asked her what she wanted to it..i asked her so we can go where she wants,, and her respond was why does it matter we always go to burgerking (last week she wanted to somewhere and she didnt tell me till it was too late)..later in the day we where watching a movie and hugging laughing..after she came back from the restroom she didnt seem interested in the movie.she was looking at her foot which she hurt..so i told her if she doesnt want to watch ill watch it myself and she got mad and got on the her phone..her pride is also a big problem and she knows it..she even mentions her pride is more important she told me she sees no future with me..she told me she doesnt love me but she likesme a lot and trusts me a lot.. she has told me very sensitive things about her..she also told me she just wants to be friends, she said she doesnt know what she wants i want her in my life she is nice. everyone in my family likes her. she is the best..but i dont know what to do..I help her as much as i can i encourage in her sports and in school.. i listen to her..perhaps i just talk to much to her.. we used to the whole day.. this week we havent really talked because of school..and im ok with that. what do i do, what do you guys suggst?
Author rcgj Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 can anyone tell me how to win her back..or should i leave her alone?
SadPanda22 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 You can't "win" her back, she's a person, not a prize at the carnival. How old are you?
Author rcgj Posted September 4, 2012 Author Posted September 4, 2012 no inputs???? i guess this was my fault then :/
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