carabear Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 Hello everyone... My name is Cara, I am having some, well LOTS, of problems with an online relationship and I need some advice. I'll try to keep my problem as short and simple as I can... I met this girl in a chat room and as soon as I started talking to her I felt *something* for her. So I lied to her and told her I was a guy. I know what I did was wrong. I talked to her for weeks under my new alias, but then we both began to fall for each other, well I fell for her and she fell for who she thought was me... I had to tell her the truth about who I was... I told her that I was a girl and I told her the reason why I lied to her. She said she would forgive me but it would take some time to totally get over it, if she ever could. And also she said that she loved me as a girl or a guy, it didn't matter to her. When she told her family that she was bisexual, they were upset, so she's been staying at her friend's house for the past few days until they have had some time to adjust to the idea... Today she called me from her friend's house and said that she thinks we should take a break... Not because she doesn't love me, because she does, but because she wants someone to hold her and she wants someone to cuddle with. After I cried, she said she didn't want to take a break, but she wanted to cuddle and not feel guilty... So I told her to go ahead and cuddle, just so that it was innocent. I'm not sure if I did the right thing or not, and now she is out with her friends and I am so confused and upset.
cinnamonstix49 Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 Originally posted by carabear she wanted to cuddle and not feel guilty... After what you did to her, she shouldn't have to feel guilty about ANYTHING
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