things get better each day

[Coyoteloco]

I wrote a few thread already (6 year relationship, firstlove, +- 1 month of BU)

 

So each day things get easier, and coping with all this emotional trauma thing gets easier, i start to enjoy my life again, i dont care what my ex is doing or who she with, but yes i still have her in my mind almost all the time. My friends help me alot, and i apreciate them so much more right now, cause they will always be there for me u know, bros before hoes! Also now i start to see my ex for who she really is, and my family tells me that when i was with her i was so blinded and that she put me against my family and my sister. My sister tells me that when i was with her i was like if they ever said something about her i didnt like i would get so pissed and that i was kind of distanced from my family. Now my relationship with my sister is so much better, i care for her alot more, and she helps me get me through all of this, also she tells her friends im going through all of this and they go like "awwwww" ;D

 

So i dont know what is going on, but theres been so many break ups in my social circle this month!! all somehow long term relationships. Thats makes me feel better cause theres new single people out there, and hey maybe in 6 months im with a new girlfriend Seeing my ex the other day was a big mistake cause that got me back to day one, i asked her to go no contact with me, today its day 6 :/ and like i said its like everything started again all the work i did before seeing her went through the drain! Also i find myself so much talkative and social than when i was with my ex, my friends notice this and i also notice this, so all of this might be good to me, when i got with her my friends told me she wasnt good for me cause she was changing me and too controlling. Now im that free soul i was again! Next friday is our 6 year anyversary :/

 

So lets hope i keep on moving foward and lets hope this pain fades away sooner than later, even though i know that when she gets a new boyfriend it will hurt as ****, but i dont see that happening too soon. So ill keep my head up and take this as a man.

 

Peace

[blue_jay_bird]

There not much i can say but : im in the same boat, your not alone.

 

My seven year relationship that i feel like he just sent down the drain. WE CAN DO this. No Contact!!!! be strong.

[Appleness]

Good to hear that you're doing better coyoteloco!

 

My family mentioned similar things after my break. I looked it up and it's a classic sign of a manipulator. Stay strong and keep away from those breadcrumbs. Don't think about that anniversary. We'll get through it

[Coyoteloco]

hey, so i just read these thread ( http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/251986-grass-greener-syndrome ) some1 here told me she isnt going through that, but it seems pretty much the case. All symptoms are there except the entering a new relationship. Like it was her exact words. Also she always gets some weird diseases like mononucleosis, hepatitis, skin things, i guess now she gots it in her brain lol. I mean we were heading pretty much for marriage, our familys had already agreed this, and her father talked with my parents about our future together. She really didnt gave me any good reason for the break up, she said "yes i dont know why i ended such a good relationship that was going so well, but i just felt like it, i love you but its not the same, i dont know if i could ever stop feeling love for you, maybe in 1 year we are back together, or in 3 years, not enough time went by yet, but dont wait for me" One day she is all over me, the next she seems distant :/ she is 20 and been with me for 6 years, she started partying, drinking and smoking this year, 2 weeks before the break up she was planning a holiday with me. I dont know some1 said it wasnt the case but if thats not the reason i dont know which is the real reason. Anyways im doing alot better and hopefully ill find some1 better before she comes begging.