Check your own gender!!

[joystickd]

I see men and women have complaints about the opposite sex and have you ever thought that maybe its your own gender causing the problems.

Example: Men complain about golddiggers. What about the tricks that freely give their money for companionship.

Example: Women complain about men pushing for sex. What about promiscuous women that offer the path of least resistance that give it up to any man with a dick that's breathing.

 

It is easy to whine and complain about what the other gender does but are you open to the possibility that your own gender is the cause of these problems.

[Woggle]

People don't see it because it doesn't affect them. I think if everybody switched genders for a week gender relations would improve quite a bit.

[phineas]

well, I do have a problem with women who only seem to date tools.

I'd like to check the tools but, ya know a tool is a tool & they never change.

 

I met a 55yr old tool that was dating a 40yr old co-worker.

He actually started a fight in a bar with a 25yr old female co-worker. He said something so completely offensive she went off on him. TOOL!

 

I don't think their together & she is possibly interested in me, but, she dates tools.

I'm not a tool.

I'm a magnet for these types of women.

I'm the guy they think they should be with, but it's the tools that get them horny.

 

If a guy is a tool, he's always going to be a tool & a lot of women just can't change what their attracted to so they usually don't change either.

 

I personally have cut cheaters of both sexes from my life.

[MrCastle]

I think both genders get played and have different advantages/disadvantages.

 

Some girls use sex as a weapon. Some men dangle the possibility of a relationship over a girl's head to continue having casual sex with no commitment.

 

Young women have the dating edge, but lose it in their older years.

 

Young men have no dating edge, but gain it in their older years.

 

This is all generally speaking but the point is, we all have problems.

[january2011]

I'm open to the possibility that people in general cause problems, regardless of gender.

[Forever Learning]

People don't see it because it doesn't affect them. I think if everybody switched genders for a week gender relations would improve quite a bit.

 

What he said. We should all walk a mile in the other gender's moccasins.

[Pyro]

What he said. We should all walk a mile in the other gender's moccasins.

 

or to do something more realistic would be to read and understand the threads on here that focus on the dating woes of men and women.

[Forever Learning]

or to do something more realistic would be to read and understand the threads on here that focus on the dating woes of men and women.

 

Great tip, thanks boss!

[Pyro]

Great tip, thanks boss!

 

I'm not Bruce Springsteen.

[Forever Learning]

I'm not Bruce Springsteen.

 

My bad. Thanks Captain!

[AlexDP]

I see men and women have complaints about the opposite sex and have you ever thought that maybe its your own gender causing the problems.

Example: Men complain about golddiggers. What about the tricks that freely give their money for companionship.

Example: Women complain about men pushing for sex. What about promiscuous women that offer the path of least resistance that give it up to any man with a dick that's breathing.

 

It is easy to whine and complain about what the other gender does but are you open to the possibility that your own gender is the cause of these problems.

 

Your dick breathes?

[Caius Ballad]

People don't see it because it doesn't affect them. I think if everybody switched genders for a week gender relations would improve quite a bit.

 

You do realize life as a girl is very VERY EASY? Wake up, look pretty, get tons of attention, pick up boys with not problems, hang out with friends, do easy jobs at work, complain about the world keeping you down.........thus the life of a female.

 

So yes let me become a female. All the guys would cream their pants for me. Life would be sex, fun and free stuff from dumb beta males.

[Mme. Chaucer]

I react with just as much impatience and irritation regardless of which gender is bashing and blaming the other gender for their misery.

 

Look at YOURSELF, people. If YOU are in unhealthy dating and relationship patterns, it's NOT because of the other gender, or even because of YOUR gender. It is because YOU are there, yourself.

 

Either get out of the unhealthy relationships, or work on YOU so that they are better. Because many times, not only is it not all because of the foibles of an entire gender, many times it's not because of the other individual, either. It's often really because of yourself.

 

Yes, I take my own advice on this, too. Sometimes it's very difficult.

[Mme. Chaucer]

You do realize life as a girl is very VERY EASY? Wake up, look pretty, get tons of attention, pick up boys with not problems, hang out with friends, do easy jobs at work, complain about the world keeping you down.........thus the life of a female.

 

So yes let me become a female. All the guys would cream their pants for me. Life would be sex, fun and free stuff from dumb beta males.

 

I'm starting to hope you are soon banned. Your ignorant comments are wearing on me.

 

Do you have a brain, or any interests, or a personality at all, or is your entire being devoted to sniveling and blaming women for your pathetic life?

[Caius Ballad]

I'm starting to hope you are soon banned. Your ignorant comments are wearing on me.

 

Do you have a brain, or any interests, or a personality at all, or is your entire being devoted to sniveling and blaming women for your pathetic life?

 

Typical female. Something bothers you so you want it gone. You ladies never stand and fight. I bet right about now you're hoping a forum beta male comes to defend you right?

[Emilia]

• Boobs - check
  
• Vagina - check
  
• Entitlement complex - check
  
• Have all the control in dating - check
  
• Gold digger - check
  
• Lots of free dinners - check
  
• Deluding myself that I can have a career rather than sit at home like a good woman looking after babies - check
  
• Shallow and superficial - check
  
• Only like bad boys/jerks
  
• Need to be saved from myself by a white knight - check
  

 

 

Have I missed anything?

[Emilia]

I'm starting to hope you are soon banned. Your ignorant comments are wearing on me.

 

Do you have a brain, or any interests, or a personality at all, or is your entire being devoted to sniveling and blaming women for your pathetic life?

 

I think he is a robot with a clock mechanism. Someone winds him up in the morning and he keeps going until he needs winding again.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Typical female. Something bothers you so you want it gone. You ladies never stand and fight. I bet right about now you're hoping a forum beta male comes to defend you right?

 

Haha! No, not quite! My hope is that you will come back here soon to report that you have realized what a complete pathetic nincompoop you've come off as here, and that you are determined to develop some valuable qualities.

 

I do want you gone, if all you can do is spew stupidity. I think that bigoted hate speech has no place here. Are supposed to give you some kind of a pass because you might be the world's biggest, most pathetic loser? I don't care how much of a loser you are, your constant and ridiculous assertions about women (the majority of whom have better jobs and educations, higher IQ's, stronger biceps, superior social skills, sharper senses of humor, probably higher testosterone, a greater command of the English language, are more logical and make vastly greater contributions to society and to the well being of others lives than you, if we go by your posts here on LS) are really out of line and unacceptable. Just like blatant racism … which I think you also enjoy blurting out.

 

Your type is easy to understand - a person who has nothing going and who is ignorant and small minded often seeks to belittle others because of race, gender, etc. in order to feel like a human. It's not excusable.

 

I will concede that you might very well be a good gamer. Stick with that and steer clear of what you know nothing about, which appears to cover just about everything. In this case, women.

[Caius Ballad]

Haha! No, not quite! My hope is that you will come back here soon to report that you have realized what a complete pathetic nincompoop you've come off as here, and that you are determined to develop some valuable qualities.

 

I do want you gone, if all you can do is spew stupidity. I think that bigoted hate speech has no place here. Are supposed to give you some kind of a pass because you might be the world's biggest, most pathetic loser? I don't care how much of a loser you are, your constant and ridiculous assertions about women (the majority of whom have better jobs and educations, higher IQ's, stronger biceps, superior social skills, sharper senses of humor, probably higher testosterone, a greater command of the English language, are more logical and make vastly greater contributions to society and to the well being of others lives than you, if we go by your posts here on LS) are really out of line and unacceptable. Just like blatant racism … which I think you also enjoy blurting out.

 

Your type is easy to understand - a person who has nothing going and who is ignorant and small minded often seeks to belittle others because of race, gender, etc. in order to feel like a human. It's not excusable.

 

I will concede that you might very well be a good gamer. Stick with that and steer clear of what you know nothing about, which appears to cover just about everything. In this case, women.

 

My type is hyper logical. Logic, science and reason is all that matter to us. Btw I have no desire to feel human or be loved. In that sense I'm above basic humans. What bothers me is the fact society accepts the illusion that surrounds them. You ladies are controlled more so than men by evolutionary instinct. Nothing can change that pure fact yet you female keep making up BS about how different you are. You're not, just like every female you desire taller, alpha males of the group.

 

We men say we like boobs. You women like strong fit guys but again you make up BS about wanting him for his personality. This bothers me because you ladies never stop lying. TRUTH IS ladies who go for personality are very unattractive thus they settle for the cliche Mr. Personality.

[fortyninethousand322]

I don't usually see women creating a lot of problems in the world or in dating. It's almost all maladjusted men. So why would they need to "check" their own gender?

[Mme. Chaucer]

My type is hyper logical. Logic, science and reason is all that matter to us. Btw I have no desire to feel human or be loved. In that sense I'm above basic humans. What bothers me is the fact society accepts the illusion that surrounds them. You ladies are controlled more so than men by evolutionary instinct. Nothing can change that pure fact yet you female keep making up BS about how different you are. You're not, just like every female you desire taller, alpha males of the group.

 

We men say we like boobs. You women like strong fit guys but again you make up BS about wanting him for his personality. This bothers me because you ladies never stop lying. TRUTH IS ladies who go for personality are very unattractive thus they settle for the cliche Mr. Personality.

 

Seriously, you need help.

 

I hope you'll get it. In the meanwhile, how about backing off on all of your claims about what we women are and are not. Clearly you don't know any women.

 

Do you have a mom? Is she an OK person?

[AlexDP]

Seriously, you need help.

 

I hope you'll get it. In the meanwhile, how about backing off on all of your claims about what we women are and are not. Clearly you don't know any women.

 

Do you have a mom? Is she an OK person?

 

A lot of women do tend to BS about the issue though, you have to admit that much. In all honesty, most women will not fall in love with the ugliest guy around.

[joystickd]

I don't usually see women creating a lot of problems in the world or in dating. It's almost all maladjusted men. So why would they need to "check" their own gender?

Its was mainly geared toward some of the more negative users on here. Some of their gripes about the opposite sex are actually caused by their own sex when you sit down and think about. This is in addition to them being a cause of their problems.

[AlexDP]

I don't usually see women creating a lot of problems in the world or in dating. It's almost all maladjusted men. So why would they need to "check" their own gender?

 

You're not being serious, right?

[Mme. Chaucer]

A lot of women do tend to BS about the issue though, you have to admit that much. In all honesty, most women will not fall in love with the ugliest guy around.

 

Do most men fall for the ugliest woman around?

 

Attraction is what usually gets people together. Do you seriously think that "most" women deny this?

 

Then the personality and other characteristics make or break what comes next. For the people I've known all my life, anyway. I'm starting to think that many LS posters are from another planet entirely.