jrh1524 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I had a 2nd date with a girl today. We had a sushi lunch and talked for about 2 hours. The conversation was light and friendly. Toward the end of the date I asked if she wanted to go to a park I know where they usually have live bands or see a movie. She replied that she wanted to go to the Galleria and buy some shoes she was really thinking about getting... I said ok, and didn't invite myself to go with her. While in the situation at the time it didn't feel like a blow off, since we had such a great conversation and she seemed interested and what not, I'm terrible about reading women's minds. But if I were to describe her reply to anyone, it totally seems like a blow off. I feel that if she was really interested in me she would jump at the chance to spend more time together. So I walked her back to her car and she said she had a great time and that let's do something next week after she gets back from a business trip. She also texted me afterwards, "Thanks for coming out. I had a great time." I'm not too bothered by being blown off, but what I am bothered by is not knowing for sure where I stand with the girl. What do you think? My suspicion is that she is only slightly interested and I should probably persue other things.
It's Just Me Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I don't see any issues so far. Two hours on a second date is plenty - people do have plans and lives outside of dating. If she bothered to say thanks, then respond accordingly. Do as you normally would, and see what happens next week. Good luck! I know I wouldn't spend two hours being nice on a second date if I didn't like the guy.
LeoNguyen Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 You're right. She probably wasn't that interested. But that's fine. No big deal. She said she wants to see you again when she gets back. So get another date going. What you may be more concern about is how to attract a woman. I could go on for days on this, but the simplest way to do this is to just... Lead her. Everyone knows that women love confidence but how exactly do you show it? You have to take the lead. Take the initiative. Just do it. You don't ask for permissions (but you're still open to her opinions if she has anything to say). 1
Author jrh1524 Posted September 3, 2012 Author Posted September 3, 2012 Thanks It's Just Me and Leo. I think I'll tell her to come up next week for a movie watching party. 1
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