dp421685 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Almost a month of NC and doing Pretty good. Everyday has been better than the previous. Last night my friends and I went out to a club, pretty big one and I saw my ex there with a another guy. I didn't make eye contact or anything and went on my way to having a great night. we were in seperate sections of the place so I never saw her the rest of the night. Apparently she noticed me and i got a text from her around 2:30 am saying "save me? No?" I didn't respond and then around 4:30 am she calls me but no message. I didn't pick up and I haven't acted on anything. Any thoughts ? Advice ? On next steps?
ProjectSiK Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 Depends on how you're feeling, man. Do you think you'd be able to handle contacting her no matter what she says? As long as you're not going into it with some hope of getting her back then go for it. I'm a strong believer that people should continue to speak, you'll see me state it on other threads, you shouldn't completely eliminate someone who was once so special in your life (under right circumstances of course). If you're emotionally stable, would just like to talk to her, then go for it and see what's up. Another thing I like to recommend is take advice from other people with a grain of salt. What people say isn't the end all, be all. You gotta do what you feel is right. Of course, make sure your thinking with your head and not your heart because that's when things can get messy.
bluefairy812 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Almost a month of NC and doing Pretty good. Everyday has been better than the previous. Last night my friends and I went out to a club, pretty big one and I saw my ex there with a another guy. I didn't make eye contact or anything and went on my way to having a great night. we were in seperate sections of the place so I never saw her the rest of the night. Apparently she noticed me and i got a text from her around 2:30 am saying "save me? No?" I didn't respond and then around 4:30 am she calls me but no message. I didn't pick up and I haven't acted on anything. Any thoughts ? Advice ? On next steps? I wouldn't contact her. I know i'd be pissed off if i were to text my ex after seeing him at a club and receive no response. Let her come to you. 1
Author dp421685 Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 you think she is pissed off at me? why?
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