TheOne91 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Ok so iv been kind of socially inactive for about 2 years, i was so focusd on lifting weights and getting in good shape, and yesterday i decided to finally let lose and go out with my friends. So im a very shy guy, even if im tall (6,5ft) and muscular and above avrage looking. So at the club im basicly sitting down drinking and trying to get eye contact with any good looking girl passing my way, and i sat there for about 1 hour untill iv had enough and decided to move out on to the dance floor. There i kinda challanged myself to go up and dance with the first girl who gave me eye contact and smiled at me, so after a while this gourgeous looking girl does exactly this and i move up too her and ask her if she wants to dance with me and she responds sure, so we dance and talk abit then i ask her if i may kiss her (i know it sounds cheesy, but im terrible with girls) and we end up making out for a while and then she said she had to leave but gave me her number, so i go back to my friends and i still see all of her friends on the dancefloor but she left. It feels really strange that she would leave alone, even tho she didn live far from the club. So anyways i was really drunk at this time and i texted her askig if the number was her's, just to make sure that she didnt give me some random number. And i askd if she wants me to call/text her another time, and he replied that i should do that. The thing is that i felt like i got alot of mixed signals from her, and im not quiet sure if she was really into me or not im going to text her, im just not quiet sure when :S Anyone got any ideas what she might been thinking ? Sorry if i misspelled alot, and if my grammar wasn't in check Grettings from Denmark
LeoNguyen Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 TheOne91, Don't worry if she's not into you. Most of the times, women will not fall in love with you at first sight. That's why we chase girls. You GET them to like you. Think about her and tell yourself this. "It's okay if you don't like me now. I'm sure that once you get to know me, you will." So call her up. Meet up and lead her. You can stop asking her for permissions now. Just lead all the way. If she's uncomfortable at any point, she'll let you know. And then you just can just take it easy. Good luck! -Leo
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