lana_sa Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I met this guy one month ago,things seemed to go really well we had really nice,talked a lot etc.Anyway,since we live far away we mainly talk on skype,fb or phone.So i might take this a bit too seriously but it botheres me.He seems to be interested but sometimes not,like yesterday he just ignored me on fb,i wrote "heeey",he read it and stayed online for another 40 minutes but never replied to my "heeEY".The day before he was all nice and cute towards me,messaged me and so on..so i am having a hard time to get if he is interested or not? and what should i do,i dont want him to think i care too much? even though i realize i do....since my ex,i have not met any guys i really liked ,he is the first one i am becoming really interested in
meeji Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 just ask him! Say Hey, I have these feelings for you and i want to know how you honestly feel about me.
bluegreen Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 He might like you but since you are to far away is not committed to your talks he might like you and is also exploring other options as well unless man is chasing you to talk to you there lays your answer. Like flirt but keep looking he might or might not be the one you get but why loose all the ones you can ?
rogerabbit Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 ...So i might take this a bit too seriously but it botheres me.He seems to be interested but sometimes not,like yesterday he just ignored me on fb,i wrote "heeey",he read it and stayed online for another 40 minutes but never replied to my "heeEY". I'd vote for "over-reacting". It's too bad Facebook was invented, it's probably destroyed more relationships than it has helped. Secondly, "heeey" doesn't have a lot of substance to it. If you want to get his attention, try asking a question that has some substance, like what his favorite travel place would be or if you could be together that weekend, what would he plan for you to do together? Then you will know whether or not he's really interested in giving his time. The other answer - direct approach - always works better with guys. "Do you like me seriously or are we just fooling around?" It's never worth dragging things out when they don't need to be. Good luck!
justwhoiam Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 Asking him? Seriously? If that was on his mind, you'd know or will soon. It's just one month. I would think he's having fun, but he doesn't want to focus all his time on you and talking to you. Maybe once or twice a week is enough. Don't message him and see if he will start contact.
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