hurts_so_bad Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 My wife and I have been seperated now for 7 months....We keep in contact like once a week mostly to discuss any issues with the children or when I will send the check. Anyway, Due to the fact that she no longer can handle the home she had asked me to buy her out so she can get a apartment or condo. We agreed to the buy out but our seperation now has to be legal in order to protect ourselves. I saw her around 2 weeks ago and we discussed it a bit further and she mentioned to me that her lawyer said, Why not just go for the divorce? I asked her if thats what she wanted and she did not give me a answer. Fast forwarding a week later she agreed to see me and go out for something to eat. We hung out for around 4 hours. She said she told her lawyer to just leave it as a seperation for now cause she is not sure if thats what she wants. I then told her to look in my eyes and tell me you dont love me. She looked and told me I cant tell you that...I held her and gave her a kiss but I feel there is no emotion from her to me anymore. At the end of the night I asked her if she wants to go to dinner with me this Wed...She said yes...I am now debating if I should....Should I just text her and cancel saying I think its a bad idea? or do you guys think I should go? I did put her threw alot in our 18 years of marriage and I could understand her being stand off ish but I feel it may be a losing battle. I feel that if she still had love there for me she would be a bit more emotional and more willing to hug and kiss me... Please let me know what you think...I am very confused as too what I should do here. I dont want to make things worse bby doing the wrong thing. I do still love her with all my heart but if its time to stop fighting I need too
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