nightonthesun1234 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Hi, so I'm currently a senior in college. I met this guy in one of my classes last semester, in the spring. We'd make small talk about the class, school, etc. every day, but it never went beyond that. I was very attracted to him physically, yet was in a relationship with someone else at the time. Over the summer, my boyfriend and I broke up after almost two years together. After about a month, I saw my relationship with my ex for what it was (not good for me) and began to heal. I am now back at school and I ran into this guy at a meeting for a research program. We talked for about an hour after the meeting and walked back together as he lives in the apartment complex across from mine. I found him nice and charming. A few hours later he sent me a friend request on Facebook. We have no mutual friends so he had to look me up, and I thought it might indicate that I was still in the back of his mind hours after we had talked. What is unfortunate is that we major in different sciences and are researching for completely different projects, so I have no idea if I'll ever see him again (I go to a large school). I want the opportunity to get to know him to see if we'd be compatible dating-wise. All my friends are telling me he's at least somewhat interested and that I should message him suggesting something casual like getting drinks one night. However, I know I have a tendency to look into things way to much and place meaning on things that are meaningless. Am I making too big of a deal out of this? was our talk/his friend request just a friendly gesture?
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