supermanthatho Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 We broke up June 1st this year. I went downhill and picked myself back up again and happy without her. I was in NC and lately these past 2 weeks we have been talking again just general talk and somewhat about the relationship. She tells me that she still loves me but still wants time to herself yet I see so many guys talk to her and she talks back to them (she re-added me on fb) and I find it all unfair because this is the time to make it up to me I shouldnt have to tell her that. She has done this whole cruel break up thing but she said she did it for a reason because she thinks i can do better without her. Shes still that same insecure person since the implant in her arm. (read my other threads if you want) And Iv find myself having all those feelings again and I cant take it anymore. I really feel pushed to the limits and beyond. Im really sorry if this thread is all over the place my head is just messed up right now and Im crying at the same time because I feel so hurt all over again.
jgregory4614 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I feel your pain. Ive went through the same thing you're going through now. My wife told me that I didnt deserve her and I could do better. She told me that the second time we seperated only to find out that she was f****** her manager from work. The first time we broke up 8 months after we got married she told me she needed time to herself. Come to find out she was f****** her ex boyfriend. 3 months ago she went out of town for a buisness trip with her new manager and ended up staying out drinking til 1 am that night. So...from my point of veiw, when your ex tells you shes not good for you, I would take it into consideration. Shes telling you that for a reason in a nice way. Take as it is. If you try messing around with her again or you try fishing for info about what shes doin youre only going to hurt yourself. You should know that by. Youve already been through this crap once before. Why go through it again. You know what you need to do. Dont give in to her. Do whats best for you.
Mint Sauce Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 tell her as clearly as possible what you expect from her in case she really wants to give it another go (which probably includes clear exclusivity). If that is not her intention, ask/demand her to respect your wish for NC.
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