Fatalcharm88 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Been seeing this guy and BOTH of us has been hurt of course like most any other NORMAL person in a relationship... he brought up the other day if I was going to marry him and my response was when you are serious sure I will.. He came back with I am serious I said well then yes I would marry you and he came back with yea right you dont even love me and I assured him then I did more then he would ever really know...his break up was a little more messier then mine was and I can understand him feeling bad still in ways, but tonight I asked him HOW serious was he about us with him being the one already talking marriage and asking me in other situations when we are alone if I could handle spending forever with him... to me that sounds like he has been thinking about being serious with me, RIGHT? anyway he responded with this: "you have me there, but im just afraid to go there" WTF does that mean??? I know he is scared about being hurt WHO isnt it??? I said I promise you I wont ever hurt you and his response was " in time we will see" WTF does that mean lol... I mean does that mean he is slowly but surely opening up to me and giving me a chance ?? How can I assure him that im not like the rest and that I want to be there for him in every possible way even if its a bad day I still want to be there??? PLEASE help....
SmileFace Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 How old are you guys? Is marriage something that you are both aiming to right now?
Author Fatalcharm88 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 he is 41 and im 39 and I could see myself with him for the rest of my life yes...
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