bobsmith76 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I'm just curious. Say you have big boobs and you wear a shirt that really shows them off, showing cleavage and everything. I'm guessing if I were girl I would take a bit of a thrill watching men get nervous and anxious as I approach them. I'm guessing that when a woman wears a shirt that exposes the cleavage they want men to look at it. Is this right?
mesmerized Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 meh, I don't care if men look at it but sometimes their reactions and the way they try to hide the fact that they're thinking about it is entertaining. 3
Hawaii50 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 meh, I don't care if men look at it but sometimes their reactions and the way they try to hide the fact that they're thinking about it is entertaining. Evil! EVil! EVVVVIL! evil! eViLLL!!!
Bristolius Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 We men need to bring back the fashion of bejeweled eye-catching codpieces to balance this out. 4
Hawaii50 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 They only want certain men to look. .....And I do. 1
mesmerized Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 We men need to bring back the fashion of bejeweled eye-catching codpieces to balance this out. just stuff something in your pants and you'll know how it feels.
carhill Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I think some women do (want men to look at their cleavage) and some have said as much to me. OTOH, others are generally oblivious for varying reasons. I got this a lot during my 'girlfriend with penis' years. They would apparently forget I was a man and responded to secondary sexual characteristics like a man. It is what it is.
Radu Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 We men need to bring back the fashion of bejeweled eye-catching codpieces to balance this out. 2
ThaWholigan Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 We men need to bring back the fashion of bejeweled eye-catching codpieces to balance this out. I don't need to I always get caught looking at boobs, I really try not to though 2
mesmerized Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I don't need to I always get caught looking at boobs, I really try not to though There was some kind of gay event in my city and lots of guys were is tight shorts showing off. I tried not to be too obvious about looking but I think I failed at it. They wanted us to look though
runner Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 bring sunglasses when hanging outdoors, beats 3D at the cinema
fortyninethousand322 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Not particularly. But then again I don't make a habit of exposing my cleavage in public. 1
Radu Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I find women wearing cleavage often either completely honest ppl, or some of the most hypocritical ppl. They are either honest about it and admit that they do it for attention, so good for them. And then there are those that get mad at you for looking at them. They wear cleavage all the time, they get push-up bra's to enhance it even, and then they have the gall to get mad at men for 'looking at them'. I find the latter to be drama obsessed diva's with low self-esteem who are about as interesting as taking a dump. 1
GirlontheLam Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I don't show much cleavage because I don't want people to stare. It feels really weird when I do have cleavage, because people forget I have eyes. Even people you know. On the flip side, my sister is A-OK with showing her cleavage. And she gets lots of comments.
mesmerized Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I don't show much cleavage because I don't want people to stare. It feels really weird when I do have cleavage, because people forget I have eyes. Even people you know. On the flip side, my sister is A-OK with showing her cleavage. And she gets lots of comments. ...........
Febreze Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I'm just curious. Say you have big boobs and you wear a shirt that really shows them off, showing cleavage and everything. I'm guessing if I were girl I would take a bit of a thrill watching men get nervous and anxious as I approach them. I'm guessing that when a woman wears a shirt that exposes the cleavage they want men to look at it. Is this right? I'm a full 36C so I get looks all the time and I dont mind but I really like it better if a man can show some self control and not have to be looking at my boobs 24/7 lol. To me my eyes are so much better
soccerrprp Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I'm just curious. Say you have big boobs and you wear a shirt that really shows them off, showing cleavage and everything. I'm guessing if I were girl I would take a bit of a thrill watching men get nervous and anxious as I approach them. I'm guessing that when a woman wears a shirt that exposes the cleavage they want men to look at it. Is this right? Of course this is right! Come on, if not, then they would wear something more modest.
Author bobsmith76 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 ok, after reading the responses from now on, this will be my new policy. if i see a woman exposing a lot of cleavage i'm going to look for about 2 seconds. that will be my first flirt. i'll then wait for her to do something flirty before i take a second look.
LeoNguyen Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 If she's showing her cleavage, she wants the attention. A funny thing a guy can do is to directly comment on it. Most guys will try to pretend like the elephant is not in the room, but she knows. Some of our female posters even thought it was amusing. Just say, "You know...your shirt is really distracting me right now" and smile.
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I think some women do (want men to look at their cleavage) and some have said as much to me. OTOH, others are generally oblivious for varying reasons. I got this a lot during my 'girlfriend with penis' years. They would apparently forget I was a man and responded to secondary sexual characteristics like a man. It is what it is. I had an experience today that illustrates this obliviousness perfectly. My sister in law and her partner were over for lunch and afterwards she and I were rummaging around in the orchard picking apples and Asian pears. We were standing by their car saying goodbye when her fellow (a good friend of mine) notified me that I had a "hitchiker in my cleavage." It was an apple leaf. I was completely flustered. I was not intentionally showing cleavage; it's just what happens when I wear this style of tank top. He responded to my flusterment with, "well, I'm a man, red blooded and all that; I'm going to notice such things." I didn't enjoy it - I was embarrassed. I had no exhibitionistic intent! But as Carhill said, "it is what it is." I'm just used to hanging around the farm in the summer with some of my skin out in the sun and I'm not used to having any kind of reaction to it. My husband is rarely home, and he is more oblivious to my cleavage showing than I am to showing it!
BetheButterfly Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I'm just curious. Say you have big boobs and you wear a shirt that really shows them off, showing cleavage and everything. I'm guessing if I were girl I would take a bit of a thrill watching men get nervous and anxious as I approach them. I'm guessing that when a woman wears a shirt that exposes the cleavage they want men to look at it. Is this right? I like my husband to look. When I'm with him, I tend to dress sexier and show some cleavage. I don't tend to show cleavage when I'm out without my hubby, because I don't want any other guy's attention.
oaks Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Just say, "You know...your shirt is boobs are really distracting me right now" and smile. Fixed that for you.
It's Just Me Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I have boobage. Don't care to hide it, because I'd have to wear baggy clothes. I don't really rock the cleavage, although I also like to wear what looks good on me, tastefully. Look, or don't look - I don't care. It does make my BF very happy, though. The fact that he reacts is good enough for me. 2
El Brujo Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Nuthin' wrong with a woman wearing things that flaunt her rack... especially if she's well-endowed and wants to draw attention from rude construction-worker types.
Recommended Posts