cbplayer Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Is it worth pursuing? if not, why not? Ex broke up with me 2 months ago. She said feelings faded but not entirely and is too stressed to handle a relationship. I pleaded a little the same day. She wanted to be friends for now until she can figure out her feelings. I pleaded a little. Didn't work. I gave up and said we can have things her way ( I had no intention of staying in contact), so I nc for 2 months. I've been busy reading pua material and gaming other girls that I find attractive. I've been considering the possibility of getting another gf and other girls have caught my eyes. I make sure to not check my ex's fb wall, not talk to her, and act like she doesn't exist but I still have lingering thoughts about her. I have a new look and my social life is looking better, nothing major yet though. What do u guys think I should do? The time apart made me understand that there are more fish in the sea and it made me understand life, women, and attraction more than I did in the past. It made realize the importance of being a man with goals and that women are secondary. I've been getting involved with things I've neglected for a while and I'm planning my future. I have aspirations to become a frat brother, a successful software engineer, a part-time actor and bodybuilder during college and maybe after as well. I've decided to set my foot strongly in a lucrative profession, hone my talents as an actor, and become a better me. I see my life progressing towards a great ideal but regardless, I still have lingering thoughts about her.
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