cbplayer Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Ex broke up with me 2 months ago. She said feelings faded but not entirely and is too stressed to handle a relationship. I pleaded a little the same day. She wanted to be friends for now until she can figure out her feelings. I pleaded a little. Didn't work. I gave up and said we can have things her way ( I had no intention of staying in contact), so I nc for 2 months. I've been busy reading pua material and gaming other girls that I find attractive. I've been considering the possibility of getting another gf and other girls have caught my eyes. I make sure to not check my ex's fb wall, not talk to her, and act like she doesn't exist but I still have lingering thoughts about her. I have a new look and my social life is looking better, nothing major yet though. What do u guys think I should do? The time apart made me understand that there are more fish in the sea and it made me understand life, women, and attraction more than I did in the past. It made realize the importance of being a man with goals and that women are secondary. I've been getting involved with things I've neglected for a while and I'm planning my future. I have aspirations to become a frat brother, a successful software engineer, a part-time actor and bodybuilder during college and maybe after as well. I've decided to set my foot strongly in a lucrative profession, hone my talents as an actor, and become a better me. I see my life progressing towards a great ideal but regardless, I still have lingering thoughts about her.
Joaquin Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 (edited) Gaming other girls. ...?? Is that like a wii thing. Edited September 1, 2012 by Joaquin 1
Author cbplayer Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 give me a real answer. fyi "gaming other girls"= flirting with and getting them in bed
Bazamu Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Dude, if you were a player, you wouldn't need advice. Just my .02. Other than that. Just takes time to heal homie, still taking me awhile, since mine has my baby in her stomach lol. Either way, takes time to heal, seems like you are on the right track, just keep pushing forward =)
yamyams Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Ex broke up with me 2 months ago. She said feelings faded but not entirely and is too stressed to handle a relationship. I pleaded a little the same day. She wanted to be friends for now until she can figure out her feelings. I pleaded a little. Didn't work. I gave up and said we can have things her way ( I had no intention of staying in contact), so I nc for 2 months. I've been busy reading pua material and gaming other girls that I find attractive. I've been considering the possibility of getting another gf and other girls have caught my eyes. I make sure to not check my ex's fb wall, not talk to her, and act like she doesn't exist but I still have lingering thoughts about her. I have a new look and my social life is looking better, nothing major yet though. What do u guys think I should do? The time apart made me understand that there are more fish in the sea and it made me understand life, women, and attraction more than I did in the past. It made realize the importance of being a man with goals and that women are secondary. I've been getting involved with things I've neglected for a while and I'm planning my future. I have aspirations to become a frat brother, a successful software engineer, a part-time actor and bodybuilder during college and maybe after as well. I've decided to set my foot strongly in a lucrative profession, hone my talents as an actor, and become a better me. I see my life progressing towards a great ideal but regardless, I still have lingering thoughts about her. 2 months is too soon for your to pursue her once again. If she's the dumper, you have to give it much more time. Its great you're taking care of yourself, but contacting her to boast your new ambition will be a turn off for her. This is one of those catch-22s. Choose the lesser of 2 evils. Let your actions speak for you. Maybe one day, she'll hear about your new change and will contact you to "catch up". I think that would give you a better chance than you calling her right now to try to convince her you've changed.
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