reallyhotguy Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 What's an ability, method, or strategy you've learned or devised that you think has been valuable to you when dating? How about when in a relationship? I thought of this question in the middle of the night last night, when I realized how good I'm getting at shifting around in bed without pulling the sheets away from my partner. I was pretty proud of myself for being able to turn 180 without disturbing her or the bed. But that's just a silly little thing. There are so many things that go into dating, that everyone must have stuff they're proud of and rely on to make it happen. What are yours? 1
ThaWholigan Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 The skill of being able to adapt while maintaining emotional durability and stability. 6
Badsingularity Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Becoming awesome helped me with the ladies. 1
MrCastle Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I'm really, really good at creating a fantasy-like atmosphere. I try to be this magical, charming guy, like the kind you only see in movies. I'm very theatrical when it comes to dating and always go over the top with my charm. Blur the lines between reality and fantasy. I present myself as this moment in time where you can be totally free and passionate and all that stuff. This guy who comes into your life out of nowhere and changes it in a big way. And you really throw yourself into it completely. It's not enough for me to be just some guy you're dating. I need to be the guy. 1
StrangeBehaviors Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Happy within myself and not giving a damm.
Greznog Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 My uncanny ability to convince women I like them for something other than sex.
SmileFace Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I am caring and always want the guy i am with to be happy. Now I don't mean putting someone's happiness above my own. But be willing to learn about the things that interest him, taking an interest in his family school and work, giving him his own space when needed and being a good listener - and a home cook meal doesn't hurt either. 1
ThaWholigan Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I am caring and always want the guy i am with to be happy. Now I don't mean putting someone's happiness above my own. But be willing to learn about the things that interest him, taking an interest in his family school and work, giving him his own space when needed and being a good listener - and a home cook meal doesn't hurt either. Spoken like a true Virgo
threebyfate Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round. That's a fact. My skill is to get what I really and honestly want out of life, as a generality. This appears to mesh well with men of similar ilk.
eleanorhurting Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I am thoughtful and I like to do little things to make other people know they are cared for. I think I can also make the person who I am with laugh, mostly through my self-depricating humor. Its important to be with someone who you can look back at whatever went wrong during the day and joke around about it.
Pyro Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 If I can only go with one, for me it was confidence. When you have confidence you have the ability to do so many things. 1
soccerrprp Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 If I can only go with one, for me it was confidence. When you have confidence you have the ability to do so many things. That too, but a very large portion of reasonable expectations comes along with the confidence.
Pyro Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 That too, but a very large portion of reasonable expectations comes along with the confidence. and those expectations will most likely differ per person.
brahmabull117 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 If I can only go with one, for me it was confidence. When you have confidence you have the ability to do so many things. confidence is great, but I'm probably more attracted to a warm/loving/caring personality than anything else I'm not sure if it's different with women
Pyro Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 confidence is great, but I'm probably more attracted to a warm/loving/caring personality than anything else Those are good but it doesn't have anything to do with one skill that each of us possess that has helped up in the dating world.
Author reallyhotguy Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 What about stuff like "I always bring a toothbrush" or "crepes on the third date"? Am I the only one who thinks about simple stuff like that? 3
Necris Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Honestly I have zero skills, its extremely hard just to not get turned down immediately and get a date, for me just getting a date is a major accomplishment, and of the few dates I have had none progressed further than the 1st date. I'm terrible at this.
ThaWholigan Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 What about stuff like "I always bring a toothbrush" or "crepes on the third date"? Am I the only one who thinks about simple stuff like that? I always wear Diesel cologne on a date?
Pyro Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I always wear Diesel cologne on a date? You need Sex Panther by Odeon. 3
Necris Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I always wear Diesel cologne on a date? Does cologne do anything? I prefer not to wear cologne it works up my allergies.
ThaWholigan Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Does cologne do anything? I prefer not to wear cologne it works up my allergies. It makes you smell pretty good - if you don't overdo it. You need Sex Panther by Odeon. I used to have some, 60% of the time, it worked EVERY time. It's illegal in my country now . 1
Pyro Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I used to have some, 60% of the time, it worked EVERY time. It's illegal in my country now . and it's made with bits of panther, so you know it's good. Make that 10 countries now. 2
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