VOLSFOOTBALL Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 HEY GUYS i wanna tell you my problem,and hopefully you all can help me out a little! ok i was seeing this girl for a little over 1 year the complete love of my life i am 100% sure about that. i have been with quite a few women and no one compared to this girl.we had a blast while we were together as well. we had our problems though,and did not see it as being as big as it finally would in the end.i was actually controling,i would not say. i mean she smoked pot,and i did not,and i did not approve of it.i dont believe it made her a different person,it really bothered me becuase i think it is a bad habit,and i stayed on her about it to the point were she got tired of it and left me. she did not say bye or anything,she moved in with a freind and now screens my calls,its been 2 weeks since we have talked. i am 27 and i dont think this is childhood love,i miss this girl with all my heart,i wake up everyday hoping that this is the day we can talk for atleast 2 minutes. i realized that i was the one wrong. i have no right be put people down for there flaws as i have way to many myself.it really it killing me. please some advise i really really love her. do think she will call me? was it my fault? what should i day? keep callling her? leave her alone? will she find someone else in the meantime....please help doug
jw32802 Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 read "this side of goodbye" on the lifted hearts network So did it take you the 2 weeks to really realize you love her?
Author VOLSFOOTBALL Posted July 20, 2004 Author Posted July 20, 2004 no it did not take two weeks. i think the first week was like ok time apart.the second week it started setteling in. i was in a deep deep sucidal depression up to about mid day yesterday when i got this lite bulb over my head!! i am going to better myself for my self make myself more pleasent to be around.try to train my mind to stop viewing the what if's and so on..maybe if i can do that you never know???
hurtingandconfused Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 do think she will call me? I doubt it, women are stubborn like that. was it my fault? Not at all. Do not think that it was your fault. She was the one who ran rather than try to solve some problems. I'm not saying it's her fault either. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. keep callling her? Nope, the quicker you cut contact the quicker you will start to feel better about yourself. Also, she will begin to miss you. leave her alone? Absolutely, silence is golden. will she find someone else in the meantime Maybe, but you cannot do anything that happens with her life from now on. Let it be, and live your life. A woman is not worth suicide. It was clear that you were unhappy with her smoking pot. If you guys did not have the same morals then I suppose you were not meant to be.
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