Matt145 Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 So im 80% sure shes going. Any advice for me? im the one who got dumped. Should i not even look at her or pay any attention whatsoever towards her?
barese1 Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 People are going to give such differentadvice here but if you read my thread you'll see this is exactly what happend to me and it actually helped to move on a bit. I went, amde sure I looked good, made sure I was chatty to as many people there, made people laugh and generally oozed confidence and made it seem that I was beyond over it. when I chatted to her it was much the saame, small talk and friendly conversation. I came across as looking together and good. This helped me no end. Be prepared it may feel weird but just act strong, it'll do you wonders in all possible scenarios. I wouldn't avoid completely but i also wouldn't make a specific effort to chat to the ex unless the situation arises. Good luck 1
g450 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Well judging for all your other postings, I know you will go regardless and I would not be surprised if you are stalking her at this point. Seriously, it's always ex did this, ex did that, what is ex thinking, why is x texting me, add infinity. When are you going to just live your life and leave your damn x alone? Since you asked for it I will give you my advice, although Im very sure you will completely ignore it. Do NOT go to the same club or party she is at. Block her number on your phone, FB, email, etc etc. Leave her be. Then go out and get a life beyond the X. 1
yamyams Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 So im 80% sure shes going. Any advice for me? im the one who got dumped. Should i not even look at her or pay any attention whatsoever towards her? I would tell you to not go. IF you decide to go, don't go scanning the club for her. Just do you and try to have a good time. Its going to be hard not scanning the club, but if you can manage to prevent yourself, then you'll have a good time. Stick to your friends all night and focus on having a good time.
gypsysoul Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Do you still have feelings for her?? If so make her jealous as hell by bringing the hottest chick you can find... believe me works like a charm
Lobouspo Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Go to it, don't stop living your life.....this happened to me at a Halloween party some years ago. My ex who dumped me was there alone. I was with my new Ukranian girlfriend who looked really sexy in her costume. Seeing the look on the ex's face when she saw me with my date was priceless.
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